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Darkremy

Ron Murphy

@Darkremy

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American looking for information about Dominican Republic

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37

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About me

American, 62 years old

Lives in Poughkeepsie

Speaks English and mediocre Spanish

Registration: 10 February 2010

Darkremy
Darkremy replied to a thread
6 months ago
brodies2013

Best Bank for US Expats by brodies2013

We are finally in the planning stages of our move to DR! (We've been members here since 2014 and purchased a fixer upper on the north coast in 2015!) We are also shopping for a new bank...what bank would US Expat.com members recommend?

Darkremy

@brodies2013 When I first moved here I was with banco santa Cruz. I didn't have my residency yet and they had the least requirements. Unfortunately, their branches are limited. Since then I've opened accounts with banco popular and BHD. I use BHD ... Read More

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last year
Mark Mclaurin

DHL versus FedEx by Mark Mclaurin

Maybe someone can help me my job had to send me a computer and they sent it through FedEx which charge me custom fees which was fine. I went to the FedEx office and paid it and they gave me my package. It took a few extra days but I was OK with ...

Darkremy

@Mark Mclaurin I've used both, and both gave me headaches. Since then I've used MBE and Domex. Both have fast reliable service and convenient updates on your package. My top pick has been Domex. They have a good relationship with Amazon, you earn ... Read More

Darkremy
Darkremy replied to a thread
2 years ago
planner

New and Unusual words by planner

We need a thread about Dominican words! Why not!I learned a new term toda "nini"Ni trabaha ni estudia.No working and not studying! Serious article but interesting term about unemployment between age 15 and 14. So what words make you smile or ...

Darkremy

@planner The word Vina (sp) it's multi-functional 😄 Read More

Darkremy
Darkremy replied to a thread
3 years ago
LT American

Sending cash to USA bank account by LT American

Good afternoon, I need to send cash to my USA bank account. Is western union the only option?

Darkremy

Exactly Read More

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Darkremy replied to a thread
3 years ago
LT American

Sending cash to USA bank account by LT American

Good afternoon, I need to send cash to my USA bank account. Is western union the only option?

Darkremy

If you have a Dominican account you can transfer the money directly to your U.S. account. Depending on the bank, you can use the online website, or the computer at the bank. Read More

Darkremy
Darkremy replied to a thread
4 years ago
Tripp789

Bank and credit card payments for Claro cell phones by Tripp789

Hi all, My wife and I now have Claro DR cell phones on a monthly billing cycle. I’ve attempted several times to get my Banco debit card signed up to pay for the service. So far it hasn’t worked. Also tried my USA MC and no joy. We ...

Darkremy

I'm with BHD, notification, online banking and bill pay all work without any complications.  Read More

Darkremy
Darkremy replied to a thread
4 years ago
Tripp789

Bank and credit card payments for Claro cell phones by Tripp789

Hi all, My wife and I now have Claro DR cell phones on a monthly billing cycle. I’ve attempted several times to get my Banco debit card signed up to pay for the service. So far it hasn’t worked. Also tried my USA MC and no joy. We ...

Darkremy

Not sure about the problem with Claro. I have the Claro app on my cell. It shows my balance due for phone data and home wifi, but won't allow me to register with my passport or cedula to make payments through the App. I physically go into the ... Read More

Darkremy
Darkremy replied to a thread
4 years ago
Sean Collins

Mail Services by Sean Collins

I am moving to the Dominican Republic from Puerto Rico on July 5th. I receive all my medications and stoma supplies from the veterans hospital in San Juan, which are currently mailed to my PO Box here in Puerto Rico. I was wondering if anyone can ...

Darkremy

Hell ddmcghee, I will try using Mailbox Ect for receiving mail. I used my P.O. box address with CPS. After more than 6 weeks my mail has not been received nor returned to sender. Although they gave me a P.O. Box and physical address, CPS claims they ... Read More

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Darkremy replied to a thread
4 years ago
Sean Collins

Mail Services by Sean Collins

I am moving to the Dominican Republic from Puerto Rico on July 5th. I receive all my medications and stoma supplies from the veterans hospital in San Juan, which are currently mailed to my PO Box here in Puerto Rico. I was wondering if anyone can ...

Darkremy

Hello, I need some input regarding CPS mail services. I was wondering if anyone had problems receiving mail. I had mail sent to the address given by CPS in Coral Gables, Florida. It has been approx two weeks and there is no indication of I ... Read More

Darkremy
Darkremy replied to a thread
4 years ago
2VPsoldier

Getting a DR Drivers License by 2VPsoldier

Wondering if there is some sort of handbook available to study for taking/getting a DR drivers license....I have read past posts that indicate if I/we go to the Cdn (and perhaps other) Consulates or Embassy they will sign or provide some form if you ...

Darkremy

Hello, regarding getting a DR license. I'm a U.S. citizen and I have my residency. According to INTRANT you need: Certification from the Embassy or Consulate of the country of origin stating the validity of the applicant’s driving license, ... Read More

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Darkremy replied to a thread
4 years ago
TheWaifuWarrior

How does mail work in the DR? by TheWaifuWarrior

Hello, I am moving to the Dominican Republic in less than a month and I would appreciate it if someone would be kind enough to explain to me exactly how receiving mail like packages works? Do I need to set up a USPS box and have it sent there then ...

Darkremy

Hello planner. I know this thread is old, but did you have to sign the user agreement when you used CPS? If yes, what was the fee for notarization? Read More

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Darkremy replied to a thread
4 years ago
planner

Residencia - 2020 - How to get it done. by planner

Its time for a new thread laying out how to apply for residencia! Our resident lawyer, Lishali, will assist us. Lets break it down into sections: 1. Who qualifies 2. First step in your home country. 3. What you need and how to apply for your ...

Darkremy

I have been a member for several years while waiting for my big move to the DR. My journey towards residency began near the end of March '21 with the retaining of Lishali. I received my residency on 9/23/21, and with the burden of Covid ... Read More

Darkremy
Darkremy replied to a thread
4 years ago
JulianTorrez

Health Insurance by JulianTorrez

Looking for health insurance for myself and two children in DR. Which companies are the best and are the least expensive. I live in Santo Domingo

Darkremy

Hello, Does Humano have a listing anywhere for local health insurance monthly rates, or must I contact them directly to get a price quote? Read More

Darkremy
Darkremy replied to a thread
5 years ago
planner

Residencia - 2020 - How to get it done. by planner

Its time for a new thread laying out how to apply for residencia! Our resident lawyer, Lishali, will assist us. Lets break it down into sections: 1. Who qualifies 2. First step in your home country. 3. What you need and how to apply for your ...

Darkremy

Thanks for the info, I'll look for it on the website Read More

Darkremy
Darkremy replied to a thread
5 years ago
planner

Residencia - 2020 - How to get it done. by planner

Its time for a new thread laying out how to apply for residencia! Our resident lawyer, Lishali, will assist us. Lets break it down into sections: 1. Who qualifies 2. First step in your home country. 3. What you need and how to apply for your ...

Darkremy

Is anyone in the process of getting a residency visa? I have my certified documents from local government, but I'm trying to understand the apostille process and I'm not sure who does it. Is it something a lawyer would handle? I haven't ... Read More

Darkremy
Darkremy replied to a thread
6 years ago
Loïc

Medication in Dominican Republic by Loïc

Good morning everyone, Whether it's a simple cold or a chronic illness, medication and medicine use vary from country to country and culture to culture. When you are used to certain brands or types of drugs, being in a country like the ...

Darkremy

I don't have the need for much medication, but I did once purchase a skin cream that was prescribed to me here in the use. A prescription renewal would require a doctor visit ,$20 copays and $5 for the cream at the pharmacy. Without my ... Read More

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Darkremy replied to a thread
9 years ago
Priscilla

Following fashion in Dominican Republic by Priscilla

Hi everyone, Do you follow fashion trends in Dominican Republic? Every country and every culture has its own dress code. As far as you are concerned, have you changed the way you dress? Can one easily find fashion boutiques in Dominican ...

Darkremy

As a New Yorker, it was difficult for me to follow the fashion in the DR. Dominican men generally wear jeans or casual pants, and rarely shorts. Being from the North, I'm able to wear jeans during the winter months in the DR and at night, but ... Read More

Darkremy
Darkremy replied to a thread
9 years ago
PARADISECAT

What is expected of you upon marrying a Dominican National? by PARADISECAT

Greetings all... I felt the need to ask this question since I just got hit with a bit of a curve ball. I have been dating my Dominicana for close to 3 years, and for the most part she never asks for anything, so I have provided her with things I ...

Darkremy

Hi Judah40, I'd start by checking into your states divorce laws. Second would be your grounds for divorce. Being you have only been married a short time, your reason could be simply irreconcilable differences. Remember, you sponsored her ... Read More

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Darkremy replied to a thread
10 years ago
Jayden06

Recommended areas for living by Jayden06

I am considering moving to Santo Domingo within the next two years. What areas would you recommend for living. I prefer being close to shops, cafes, market, mall etc. I will be visiting within the next three months, any suggestions would be ...

Darkremy

That is true, the CZ can be less expensive than some areas such as Piantini, Costa Caribe and Naco. I consider those to be the neighborhoods of the real money makers...lol Read More

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Darkremy replied to a thread
10 years ago
Jayden06

Recommended areas for living by Jayden06

I am considering moving to Santo Domingo within the next two years. What areas would you recommend for living. I prefer being close to shops, cafes, market, mall etc. I will be visiting within the next three months, any suggestions would be ...

Darkremy

Yes, there is a place were some expats hang out. When you are in the Colonial Zone, go to the Restaurant America. It is at the corner of Calle Arzobispo Nouel and Calle Santome. If you drink, get the Cuba Libre. Read More

Darkremy
Darkremy replied to a thread
10 years ago
Jayden06

Recommended areas for living by Jayden06

I am considering moving to Santo Domingo within the next two years. What areas would you recommend for living. I prefer being close to shops, cafes, market, mall etc. I will be visiting within the next three months, any suggestions would be ...

Darkremy

The Colonial Zone and Gazcue are both very nice areas. Although for ten years I have visited many areas of the country, the colonial Zone has been my major area of interest. I think considering to live in one of the two areas mentioned would ... Read More

Darkremy
Darkremy replied to a thread
10 years ago
Julien

Best cities to live in Dominican Republic by Julien

Hi, ItÂ’s not always easy to decide in which area to settle in when moving to the Dominican Republic. According to you, what are the best cites to live in? Which regions offer most of the job opportunities, a good quality of life, an affordable ...

Darkremy

I'm still waiting to retire to make my move, but I've been visiting the DR for 10 years now. I know the thread is about where to live, but my advice is to visit as often as possible and visit as many cities as possible. I have been as far ... Read More

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Darkremy replied to a thread
11 years ago
PARADISECAT

What is expected of you upon marrying a Dominican National? by PARADISECAT

Greetings all... I felt the need to ask this question since I just got hit with a bit of a curve ball. I have been dating my Dominicana for close to 3 years, and for the most part she never asks for anything, so I have provided her with things I ...

Darkremy

Yes, she will move on, that is the plan. Regardless, I have my own plans and she isn't part of it. There are plenty of sad and happy stories. All women in the Dominican Republic are not equal. There are many good women who are just looking for ... Read More

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Darkremy replied to a thread
11 years ago
PARADISECAT

What is expected of you upon marrying a Dominican National? by PARADISECAT

Greetings all... I felt the need to ask this question since I just got hit with a bit of a curve ball. I have been dating my Dominicana for close to 3 years, and for the most part she never asks for anything, so I have provided her with things I ...

Darkremy

You hit the nail right on the head, it is unfortunate, but true. 10 years of learning and adjusting has opened my eyes. My Dominican ex-wife was easy to please and didn't ask for much before we were married. I brought her to the states on a ... Read More

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Darkremy replied to a thread
12 years ago
frost bite

getting married to a Dominican girl by frost bite

hello, i fell in love with a local girl and we are planning to get married soon, would i be able to work in the Dominican Republic or would i have any rights at all? thanks

Darkremy

She might not like it, but she needs to learn. I don't want to sound harsh, but most Dominican men aren't as considerate as we are and they will tell you the same. Increase the communication if needed. If she doesn't have a computer she can go to a ... Read More

Darkremy
Darkremy replied to a thread
12 years ago
frost bite

getting married to a Dominican girl by frost bite

hello, i fell in love with a local girl and we are planning to get married soon, would i be able to work in the Dominican Republic or would i have any rights at all? thanks

Darkremy

It very simple. If she loves you she will wait, if she's in a hurry it's for a reason. You should know what is her financial situation. Does she have a job, does she have children. Is she independent living alone or with her children, or does she ... Read More

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Darkremy replied to a thread
12 years ago
frost bite

getting married to a Dominican girl by frost bite

hello, i fell in love with a local girl and we are planning to get married soon, would i be able to work in the Dominican Republic or would i have any rights at all? thanks

Darkremy

Hello Chihuahua45, I was previously married to a Dominican woman and what you are saying is very odd. Dominican families are very warm and welcoming to the proposed partner of a family member. If her intentions were good, she would be very proud to ... Read More

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Darkremy replied to a thread
12 years ago
planner

Informal Census of Members by planner

Hello to all our members. I am being asked to organize some get togethers! Great idea. To facilitate if everyone can respond with: 1. where you are currently 2. are you interested in a get together 3. how far are you willing to travel for a get ...

Darkremy

I'm in New York Depending on the date, Santo Domingo is good for me. Read More

Darkremy
Darkremy replied to a thread
13 years ago
expat.com

How to make friends in Santo Domingo by expat.com

We have been talking about [url=https://www.expat.com/forum/viewtopic.php?id=891]loneliness when you are abroad[/url], let's now talk about how to make friends (locals or expatriates) when you're living in Santo Domingo :top: [b]Which are your best ...

Darkremy

I've been visiting the DR for more than 10 years. I have found that it is very easy to make friends. Dominican are some of the friendliest and giving people I have had the pleasure of encountering on the planet. I wouldn't advise seeking friends ... Read More

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Darkremy replied to a thread
14 years ago
frost bite

getting married to a Dominican girl by frost bite

hello, i fell in love with a local girl and we are planning to get married soon, would i be able to work in the Dominican Republic or would i have any rights at all? thanks

Darkremy

I have learned much over the years I have been traveling there. I also know it is hard for the ladies find the righ man. They can be very charming at first. Even the girls I have not met yet, have asked me for money and gifts. I will be in Santo ... Read More

Darkremy
Darkremy replied to a thread
15 years ago
frost bite

getting married to a Dominican girl by frost bite

hello, i fell in love with a local girl and we are planning to get married soon, would i be able to work in the Dominican Republic or would i have any rights at all? thanks

Darkremy

That is very true olddude158, woman are the same all over the world. I am currently going through a divorce with my Dominican wife. It is a sad thing, deep down she is a good woman, but some people are just not meant to live together. I don't think ... Read More

Darkremy
Darkremy replied to a thread
15 years ago
frost bite

getting married to a Dominican girl by frost bite

hello, i fell in love with a local girl and we are planning to get married soon, would i be able to work in the Dominican Republic or would i have any rights at all? thanks

Darkremy

Don't be too down on yourself, you weren't the first and you won't be the last. If you are serious about marrying a Dominican, I suggest you look for an older woman that has some education, established and employed. Your chances are better that they ... Read More

Darkremy
Darkremy replied to a thread
15 years ago
frost bite

getting married to a Dominican girl by frost bite

hello, i fell in love with a local girl and we are planning to get married soon, would i be able to work in the Dominican Republic or would i have any rights at all? thanks

Darkremy

Hello Frostbite, I have been reading the post and you have received some good advice. I'm a frequent visitor to the DR and married a Dominican girl about two years ago. Believe me, it has been a struggle. There are so many cultural differences. ... Read More

Darkremy
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16 years ago