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Nielsen Flute

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Registration: 06 November 2018

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Nielsen Flute replied to a thread
5 years ago
HenryJo

Is the vietnamcupid dating site legit by HenryJo

I joined yesterday. Today, found my inbox swamped with messages 'from girls'. Have a slight suspicion that not all the messages may be legit. Perhaps, to temp me in to signing-up for the paid subscriptions? Can anyone using the paid ...

Nielsen Flute

All dating sites are full of hookers. If you are wanting to meet 18-25 year olds just put that in your search. There is no need to deal with old hookers.I know how to filter on dating sites. Vietnam Cupid gets way too many glowing reviews from ... Read More

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5 years ago
HenryJo

Is the vietnamcupid dating site legit by HenryJo

I joined yesterday. Today, found my inbox swamped with messages 'from girls'. Have a slight suspicion that not all the messages may be legit. Perhaps, to temp me in to signing-up for the paid subscriptions? Can anyone using the paid ...

Nielsen Flute

Vietnam Cupid is the absolute worst dating site in Vietnam. Nothing but bots, scammers, hookers, retired pros, and formerly promiscuous women in redemption. A real waste of 40 dollars. I'd recommend Tinder. Much more mainstream and you can ... Read More

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6 years ago
Guestposter822

Marriage to a Vietnamese Woman by Guestposter822

Just interested to hear about peoples experiences married to a Vietnamese woman, more so for marriages that have lasted longer than say 3 years...

Nielsen Flute

Curious opinion. If you not see the purpose or point of marrying a woman here, then you don't see the point of marrying a woman in general.How did you come up with that logic, genius? Read More

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Nielsen Flute replied to a thread
6 years ago
Guestposter822

Marriage to a Vietnamese Woman by Guestposter822

Just interested to hear about peoples experiences married to a Vietnamese woman, more so for marriages that have lasted longer than say 3 years...

Nielsen Flute

Some may do that, but many will want to get married.Maybe it's a Saigon thing but all the married expat-viet couples I see here look stressed and miserable. Just don't see the upside unless the guy needs a visa. A Viet gf is just as good I ... Read More

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Nielsen Flute replied to a thread
6 years ago
Guestposter822

Marriage to a Vietnamese Woman by Guestposter822

Just interested to hear about peoples experiences married to a Vietnamese woman, more so for marriages that have lasted longer than say 3 years...

Nielsen Flute

I don't see the purpose or point of marrying a woman here. Stay single and keep it casual. Read More

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6 years ago
Helene

Expat.com gathering in Saigon - September 26 (Ambassador needed) by Helene

Hello all :cheers: We are back in the city! Let’s meet up at Speakeasy in Saigon on [b]Thursday, September 26 from 6pm.[/b] Vietnamese or new expat, resident or about to move away, it is a perfect occasion to meet new people from all ...

Nielsen Flute

I really wanna come to this but you guys chose a not so great venue -- Speakeasy in q7. Much better bars in the surrounding area. Read More

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6 years ago
Canman63

Vietnam #2 by Canman63

Top expat destinations in the world for 2019 has Vietnam second behind Taiwan.

Nielsen Flute

Where are all these expats living? Probably holed up in Thao Dien or Pham Ngu Lao. This city doesn't need anymore foreigners. Read More

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6 years ago
kowloon2020

Business visa denied due to "violating laws of Vietnam" - Blacklisted? by kowloon2020

Hello, I am from Western Europe, working in Hong Kong and I applied for a 3-month Vietnam business visa via an agency. I got an email from the agent telling me that I was denied, as the immigration told them "[b]I have violated the laws of ...

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I was personally advised against getting a 1 year visa recently because, according to my agent, there's a huge investigation underway at the immigration office for those who have been staying without a TRC / VEC and many have found themselves on ... Read More

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6 years ago
Nielsen Flute

Why do expats continue to move, live, and retire in the Philippines? by Nielsen Flute

This country has so many strikes against it that no sane person should negotiate with. Let's begin. Low quality of life and high costs. Even in Cebu now for a small studio rent is 25k for a cramped space with no internet / cable. Value for ...

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It'd be nice to see some demographics / age / which city you're living in. My suspicion is that only guys ages 40++ who live outside major metro areas with their families and limited exposure to expats have the positive experiences and nice ... Read More

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6 years ago
Nielsen Flute

Why do expats continue to move, live, and retire in the Philippines? by Nielsen Flute

This country has so many strikes against it that no sane person should negotiate with. Let's begin. Low quality of life and high costs. Even in Cebu now for a small studio rent is 25k for a cramped space with no internet / cable. Value for ...

Nielsen Flute

I still have a lot of hate and rage toward that country and those people. The least I can do is warn people about them. Read More

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Nielsen Flute created a thread
6 years ago

Why do expats continue to move, live, and retire in the Philippines?

This country has so many strikes against it that no sane person should negotiate with. Let's begin. Low quality of life and high costs. Even in Cebu now for a small studio rent is 25k for a cramped space with no internet / cable. Value for ... Read More

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6 years ago
Lovingherlife

Where do expats hang out during the day? by Lovingherlife

Hey I am new and wanting to get social in Ho Chi Minh. I am in District 1. Please post some cool hang out spots in the District 1 area or close by that you know have a lot of expats or english speaking people that hang out and socialize. I am a ...

Nielsen Flute

I normally don't socialize with expats bc of varying reasons but if you wander into the backpacker ghettos of pham ngu lao, bui vien and thao dien there are countless bars like Broma or Chill Sky Bar etc with plenty of foreigners that are ... Read More

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6 years ago
anamp90

What to do in Manila? by anamp90

Hello everybody. I'm in Manila for a month for business travel. I would like to know which places would you recommend to visit on the city, for shopping, touristic places, and what's the best way to go there. Taxi? I'm not seeing many ...

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Burgos / Malate / Pasay EDSA are the only things to do in that fallen city Read More

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7 years ago
QuiteHumerous

Apartment rental, Ho Chi MInh City - advice needed. by QuiteHumerous

Hi I'm Sean, I have accepted an English teacher job starting in 2-3 weeks in District 8. I know that I should look for a price in Dong that includes management fees if possible. I also know to check out the local area for noisy bars or karaoke ...

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Colin what's up man? Do you know any apartments like this in a high rise within a similar price range thats also in a safer area? Would love any input. Read More

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7 years ago
Nielsen Flute

Cebu has gotten worse. by Nielsen Flute

Contemplating a short vacation to Cebu after summer perhaps and I think it's gotten worse. I'm browsing the dating sites and apps and it's just hookers or ladyboys peppered with ugly single moms or province girls. Not only that but ...

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I will enjoy it :) Are you a Filipino btw? Instead of smart aleck replies, say something meaningful instead of all this sound and fury. Read More

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7 years ago
Nielsen Flute

Cebu has gotten worse. by Nielsen Flute

Contemplating a short vacation to Cebu after summer perhaps and I think it's gotten worse. I'm browsing the dating sites and apps and it's just hookers or ladyboys peppered with ugly single moms or province girls. Not only that but ...

Nielsen Flute

The Philippines are far from perfect and it sure enough is not for everyone, but practically everything you said is bs! I can walk around any mall and have both men and women smile at me and be very helpful if I require it. And this is coming from a ... Read More

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7 years ago
Nielsen Flute

Cebu has gotten worse. by Nielsen Flute

Contemplating a short vacation to Cebu after summer perhaps and I think it's gotten worse. I'm browsing the dating sites and apps and it's just hookers or ladyboys peppered with ugly single moms or province girls. Not only that but ...

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Yeah the Philippines is actually pretty overrated these days. It's becoming overfished by *** boomers and fly by night wife hunters or sex tourists. If you are a resident or expat, good luck dating normal professional middle class filipina ... Read More

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7 years ago
Nielsen Flute

Cebu has gotten worse. by Nielsen Flute

Contemplating a short vacation to Cebu after summer perhaps and I think it's gotten worse. I'm browsing the dating sites and apps and it's just hookers or ladyboys peppered with ugly single moms or province girls. Not only that but ...

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What apps and sites are you using, Bruce? I primarily used Dateinasia and Fill Cupid last time with very good success. Read More

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7 years ago
Romeow22

Retiring on 1400 per month can it be done? by Romeow22

Easy to retire on 1400 a month in cebu?

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Cebu for a few days or week is alright. Some good resorts and diving to be had. Then I'll leave abruptly before those people get on my nerves. Read More

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7 years ago
Romeow22

Retiring on 1400 per month can it be done? by Romeow22

Easy to retire on 1400 a month in cebu?

Nielsen Flute

I'm eyeing Cebu again myself because I want somewhere to go diving and island hopping. Living there fulltime would be a nightmare though. Read More

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Nielsen Flute created a thread
7 years ago

Cebu has gotten worse.

Contemplating a short vacation to Cebu after summer perhaps and I think it's gotten worse. I'm browsing the dating sites and apps and it's just hookers or ladyboys peppered with ugly single moms or province girls. Not only that but ... Read More

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7 years ago
dreamstolive

lifting of BLACKLIST....does it lift after 5years or never...? by dreamstolive

hello there and thanks for looking and replying if you know of ANY information that will help... i have been to the phils many times and last time i went to enter,found i was on the blacklist. it was for swearing in front of an immigration officer ...

Nielsen Flute

Filipinos are some if the most irrational, pigheaded and resentful people in the world. I also endured BI officials acting like living in their dump of a country was a privilege. Come to Vietnam. Way better country and way better everything. Read More

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Nielsen Flute replied to a thread
7 years ago
Christine

In retrospect, would you move again to Vietnam? by Christine

Hi all, If you had to look back on your expat experience in Vietnam, would you heartily say "letÂ’s do it again"? From the preparation stage to your actual everyday life in your new country, what did you enjoy the most? Would you do certain ...

Nielsen Flute

Absolutely. Great place to live for the most part. Congenial people, good food, can make lots of friends, many women are available to date, etc. Read More

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Nielsen Flute replied to a thread
7 years ago
moreto62

So many new marriages and so many divoces ?? Why by moreto62

How many % of the marriages with filipina fall apart in your opinion ? Seems like so many man are getting married to filipina girlfriend and i see many man who divorced all ready and post videos on you-tube with warnings. Is it all about money or ...

Nielsen Flute

Like I've said before Philippines is for short term relationships. Their entire society is filled to the brim with bad faith actors so you get a lot of duplicity or deceit from the women and people. Just enjoy and replace and it'll save you ... Read More

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7 years ago
GuestPoster7410

Women and Child abuse by GuestPoster7410

Hi, we are new here in HCM and I wanted to ask if there is someone we can speak to about women and child abuse? It is for my friend who is not Vietnamese and has lived here for 8 months and she does not know where to get help and her American ...

Nielsen Flute

Playing vigilante cop is a dangerous thing here. I think maybe those claims should be substantiated before ruining the guy's life over hearsay. Read More

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Nielsen Flute replied to a thread
7 years ago
OceanBeach92107

Raising a Vietnamese/ExPat Child by OceanBeach92107

I'm wondering if we can pool our constructive opinions about the unique challenge of being an expat and raising a child in Việt Nam? If there are female expats who have born a child to a Vietnamese national, your input is ...

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You're a great guy, dude. Looking out for those kids like that. I couldn't do it. Dating single moms seriously is a precarious situation even moreso in Saigon where she has a lot of other baggage to deal with. And it's not a surprise ... Read More

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Nielsen Flute replied to a thread
7 years ago
Cherryann01

2 Many Fish In The Sea by Cherryann01

Hello guys and girls, I notice on a lot of the topics posted on this website about problems with relationships, people suggest to have more than one girl o the go so you always have some options. My problem is that I have done this and am ...

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Choose the country first before you choose the woman. It really is a big deal. Read More

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7 years ago
Nielsen Flute

Talking to a Viet girl in HCMC. Need some clarity. by Nielsen Flute

Hello everyone. I need some advice on how to proceed with this girl I've been talking to for a while. We've been talking to each other for a few years now on and off through Skype/Viber. By chance I was in Saigon for work in 2015 and we ...

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When you started this thread, I suspected you were a troll. Since then you've gone from fretting over a woman who sounded like everything you wanted a woman to be, except she had a life of her own, to... Now, instead of continuing to look for ... Read More

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7 years ago
Nielsen Flute

Talking to a Viet girl in HCMC. Need some clarity. by Nielsen Flute

Hello everyone. I need some advice on how to proceed with this girl I've been talking to for a while. We've been talking to each other for a few years now on and off through Skype/Viber. By chance I was in Saigon for work in 2015 and we ...

Nielsen Flute

I date aggressively here and the women are incredibly conceited and selfish. I don't live in D1. It's been about 3 months. I'll get into specific examples later. Read More

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7 years ago
Christine

In retrospect, would you move again to the Philippines? by Christine

Hi all, If you had to look back on your expat experience in the Philippines, would you heartily say "letÂ’s do it again"? From the preparation stage to your actual everyday life in your new country, what did you enjoy the most? Would you do ...

Nielsen Flute

Just to balance out my last post since I was in a bad mood, I think the Philippines does Western food very well esp in Cebu, AC and pockets of Manila. Some great eats actually. The visa scheme is outstanding. Continuous extensions up to 3 years. ... Read More

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7 years ago
Christine

In retrospect, would you move again to the Philippines? by Christine

Hi all, If you had to look back on your expat experience in the Philippines, would you heartily say "letÂ’s do it again"? From the preparation stage to your actual everyday life in your new country, what did you enjoy the most? Would you do ...

Nielsen Flute

Thanks buddy for that sobering read. I always love hearing realistic experiences here because in truth the Philippines is a corrupt backward country with hateful people and pervasive graft. Some people are only fortunate to see it with objective ... Read More

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Nielsen Flute replied to a thread
7 years ago
Christine

In retrospect, would you move again to the Philippines? by Christine

Hi all, If you had to look back on your expat experience in the Philippines, would you heartily say "letÂ’s do it again"? From the preparation stage to your actual everyday life in your new country, what did you enjoy the most? Would you do ...

Nielsen Flute

Please share your story Jef. Read More

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7 years ago
Nielsen Flute

Talking to a Viet girl in HCMC. Need some clarity. by Nielsen Flute

Hello everyone. I need some advice on how to proceed with this girl I've been talking to for a while. We've been talking to each other for a few years now on and off through Skype/Viber. By chance I was in Saigon for work in 2015 and we ...

Nielsen Flute

Undying loyalty huh? I don't think so. Might be an old wives tale.Yeah that's a broadly sweeping stereotype and far from the truth.I'm plugged into expat affairs here and hear all sorts of stories now. Girls stringing along multiple guys ... Read More

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7 years ago
Nielsen Flute

Talking to a Viet girl in HCMC. Need some clarity. by Nielsen Flute

Hello everyone. I need some advice on how to proceed with this girl I've been talking to for a while. We've been talking to each other for a few years now on and off through Skype/Viber. By chance I was in Saigon for work in 2015 and we ...

Nielsen Flute

Undying loyalty huh? I don't think so. Might be an old wives tale. Read More

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Nielsen Flute replied to a thread
7 years ago
Kat Pham

SINGLE GROUP IN HO CHI MINH by Kat Pham

Hi guys, I dont know this is good idea or not but anyway I saw that many people are single and really want to hang out in weekend or sometimes with another who are same with them. Sometime one of you don't know the place to go because you just ...

Nielsen Flute

No harm in joining right? Can I get added to this group too please? Read More

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Nielsen Flute replied to a thread
7 years ago
taiko1989

Insight on relationship by taiko1989

Hi, guys. I'm portuguese, 29, and I have been in a relationship with a gorgeous filipina woman (33) since May last year. She works as a financial advisor at a reputable ensurance company operating in the Philippines (won't divulge it here ...

Nielsen Flute

Just another case of her having multiple lovers on the go. Pinays are flaky. This is why you pipeline more than one girl in case one flakes on you. Read More

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7 years ago
Nielsen Flute

Talking to a Viet girl in HCMC. Need some clarity. by Nielsen Flute

Hello everyone. I need some advice on how to proceed with this girl I've been talking to for a while. We've been talking to each other for a few years now on and off through Skype/Viber. By chance I was in Saigon for work in 2015 and we ...

Nielsen Flute

Oof. I really miss pinays. My gfs in Cebu and Manila took incredible care of me. I'm recovering from a bit of pneumonia and my now gf in Saigon is like....um...ok....whatever. Not really seeing a lot of nurturing and caring personalities ... Read More

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7 years ago
Nielsen Flute

Talking to a Viet girl in HCMC. Need some clarity. by Nielsen Flute

Hello everyone. I need some advice on how to proceed with this girl I've been talking to for a while. We've been talking to each other for a few years now on and off through Skype/Viber. By chance I was in Saigon for work in 2015 and we ...

Nielsen Flute

My current relationship is fine (for now) but every girl I meet and try to date seems to want something from me. They don't vocalize what it is it but I can sense they are sizing me up and seeing what I can do down the road. When they say stuff ... Read More

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7 years ago
Nielsen Flute

Talking to a Viet girl in HCMC. Need some clarity. by Nielsen Flute

Hello everyone. I need some advice on how to proceed with this girl I've been talking to for a while. We've been talking to each other for a few years now on and off through Skype/Viber. By chance I was in Saigon for work in 2015 and we ...

Nielsen Flute

I think she's gonna leave you on her own. I wouldn't say that to anyone else. But after reading all your posts I have to advise you... ...listen to Bazza! He will be a good mentor for you.You're supposed to be rooting for me to get a ... Read More

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7 years ago
Nielsen Flute

Talking to a Viet girl in HCMC. Need some clarity. by Nielsen Flute

Hello everyone. I need some advice on how to proceed with this girl I've been talking to for a while. We've been talking to each other for a few years now on and off through Skype/Viber. By chance I was in Saigon for work in 2015 and we ...

Nielsen Flute

Dating in this city is so stressful. I have a new girlfriend who is sweet but the drama is just off the charts. Took me multiple dates. I'm the first guy she's been with officially but the constant texting and manufacturing these nonsense ... Read More

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7 years ago
Sid890

Dating with Vietnam women by Sid890

I met an amazing women from Vietnam. She is so cute and I couldn't resist myself . Finally I falling love with her. We don't have problems. As I read from the forums I saw that they are so loyal and trustworthy. but I would like to get more ...

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A lot of great Viet girls will pay for the date for sure. Took me by surprise a few times. Read More

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7 years ago
bkksaigon

Best dating site to meet a good lady? by bkksaigon

Hi I am planning to move to the PH this summer and I would like to give a try to online dating. I am asking this question because I am not familiar with all the dating sites out there. Can you please share what dating site can be more likely to ...

Nielsen Flute

I've played with nearly everything in the Philippines. You'll get laid a lot but to find a meaningful relationship with a Filipina that brings you fulfilment is almost impossible. That being said, let me see if I can help. Cebu - DIA and ... Read More

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7 years ago
Priscilla

Dealing with loneliness in the Philippines by Priscilla

Hello, Expatriation can be a fun and exciting adventure, but it can also be a bit lonely at times. Please share with us some tips for dealing with loneliness. What are some potential factors that lead to loneliness when moving to the ...

Nielsen Flute

Incredibly lonely country to live in as a young man. The women don't relate to you on a deep level. The locals view you as a necessary evil and keep you at bay. Expats are largely delusional and not from my generation so there's disconnect ... Read More

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7 years ago
bkksaigon

Do foreigners get a smile in the PH? Unhappy in Vietnam by bkksaigon

Hello, Im Tim, 45, living and teaching in Vietnam for 2 years. Even though people here where I live (Ho Chi Minh) are extremely polite, respectful and honest, I hardly get a smile from a lady anywhere I go. (Yes, I smile first and I have a ...

Nielsen Flute

I get smiles in Vietnam frequently and hellos. I also got them in the Philippines but Viets appear more genuine and even keeled to me. Filipinos try way too hard to appear happy and it looks extremely contrived. I'm also a fairly serious person ... Read More

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7 years ago
GuestPoster254

Filipinas who develop a bad attitude when they marry a foreigner by GuestPoster254

I'm really annoyed at how some Filipinas develop a bad attitude when they marry a foreigner. They become aloof, arrogant, whiny, complaining "female dogs," which they weren't before they got married. My parents had such a tenant who complained on ...

Nielsen Flute

You boomers think you are so clever with the protruding beer bellies and hot air that's not from the perenial Philippine heat. I'll be existing in a relative state of normalcy while relishing every expat conundrum in that island country I ... Read More

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7 years ago
Christine

In retrospect, would you move again to the Philippines? by Christine

Hi all, If you had to look back on your expat experience in the Philippines, would you heartily say "letÂ’s do it again"? From the preparation stage to your actual everyday life in your new country, what did you enjoy the most? Would you do ...

Nielsen Flute

Respectfully, I wouldn't live here again. I stayed for over a year and it was not one of my best decisions. I stayed for a year and a half between 3 different locales in Cebu and Manila so let me summarize my experience as best as I can. The ... Read More

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7 years ago
GuestPoster254

Filipinas who develop a bad attitude when they marry a foreigner by GuestPoster254

I'm really annoyed at how some Filipinas develop a bad attitude when they marry a foreigner. They become aloof, arrogant, whiny, complaining "female dogs," which they weren't before they got married. My parents had such a tenant who complained on ...

Nielsen Flute

Well for starters people leave me alone in Vietnam. In Manila or Cebu I cannot enter a single restaurant or establishment without being laughed at or mocked and ridiculed. Constantly stared at and talked about because deep down they are insecure. ... Read More

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Nielsen Flute replied to a thread
7 years ago
GuestPoster254

Filipinas who develop a bad attitude when they marry a foreigner by GuestPoster254

I'm really annoyed at how some Filipinas develop a bad attitude when they marry a foreigner. They become aloof, arrogant, whiny, complaining "female dogs," which they weren't before they got married. My parents had such a tenant who complained on ...

Nielsen Flute

So you find Vietnam culture superior to the culture of the Philippines? Good luck.Well for starters people leave me alone in Vietnam. In Manila or Cebu I cannot enter a single restaurant or establishment without being laughed at or mocked and ... Read More

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Nielsen Flute replied to a thread
7 years ago
GuestPoster254

Filipinas who develop a bad attitude when they marry a foreigner by GuestPoster254

I'm really annoyed at how some Filipinas develop a bad attitude when they marry a foreigner. They become aloof, arrogant, whiny, complaining "female dogs," which they weren't before they got married. My parents had such a tenant who complained on ...

Nielsen Flute

And in the meantime you claim that Vietnam is almost perfect. Good to know you are going to try to work out your problems someplace else, not at the expense of any Filipinas. I can see why you agreed with the poster on the Vietnam forum who said ... Read More

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Nielsen Flute replied to a thread
7 years ago
GuestPoster254

Filipinas who develop a bad attitude when they marry a foreigner by GuestPoster254

I'm really annoyed at how some Filipinas develop a bad attitude when they marry a foreigner. They become aloof, arrogant, whiny, complaining "female dogs," which they weren't before they got married. My parents had such a tenant who complained on ...

Nielsen Flute

There's an inordinate amount of foreigners married to Filipinas and I can't understand why other than the low barrier of entry. This is a very bad country for long term relationships or quality women. Better for flings I think. ... Read More

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7 years ago
Nielsen Flute

Talking to a Viet girl in HCMC. Need some clarity. by Nielsen Flute

Hello everyone. I need some advice on how to proceed with this girl I've been talking to for a while. We've been talking to each other for a few years now on and off through Skype/Viber. By chance I was in Saigon for work in 2015 and we ...

Nielsen Flute

I'm not interested in hookers. This country is nearly perfect for me but I do not like the audition, rehearsal, performance format the girls try to pull. Read More

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7 years ago
Nielsen Flute

Talking to a Viet girl in HCMC. Need some clarity. by Nielsen Flute

Hello everyone. I need some advice on how to proceed with this girl I've been talking to for a while. We've been talking to each other for a few years now on and off through Skype/Viber. By chance I was in Saigon for work in 2015 and we ...

Nielsen Flute

I do and have, numerous times, and it wasn't for money. Trust me, all VN girls aren't the shy,conservative people some posters on here make out.This is why I'm so adamant to jump into something serious here. I like the girls in Sai Gon ... Read More

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7 years ago
Nielsen Flute

Talking to a Viet girl in HCMC. Need some clarity. by Nielsen Flute

Hello everyone. I need some advice on how to proceed with this girl I've been talking to for a while. We've been talking to each other for a few years now on and off through Skype/Viber. By chance I was in Saigon for work in 2015 and we ...

Nielsen Flute

I'm just kind of looking to play around and maybe get a gf first. Not looking to get married...yet. But the Philippines has spoiled me rotten with the easy nooky. Viet girls have much stronger resolve and are more savvy it seems than pinays. ... Read More

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7 years ago
Nielsen Flute

Talking to a Viet girl in HCMC. Need some clarity. by Nielsen Flute

Hello everyone. I need some advice on how to proceed with this girl I've been talking to for a while. We've been talking to each other for a few years now on and off through Skype/Viber. By chance I was in Saigon for work in 2015 and we ...

Nielsen Flute

Dude. You're telling me you're in your twenties, you're in Vietnam, you were at a hotel with a hot Vietnamese woman, and you're still thinking about their morality or yours? Someone wake me up. They know what they're doing, ... Read More

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7 years ago
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Talking to a Viet girl in HCMC. Need some clarity. by Nielsen Flute

Hello everyone. I need some advice on how to proceed with this girl I've been talking to for a while. We've been talking to each other for a few years now on and off through Skype/Viber. By chance I was in Saigon for work in 2015 and we ...

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I'm just kind of looking to play around and maybe get a gf first. Not looking to get married...yet. But the Philippines has spoiled me rotten with the easy nooky. Viet girls have much stronger resolve and are more savvy it seems than pinays. ... Read More

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Talking to a Viet girl in HCMC. Need some clarity. by Nielsen Flute

Hello everyone. I need some advice on how to proceed with this girl I've been talking to for a while. We've been talking to each other for a few years now on and off through Skype/Viber. By chance I was in Saigon for work in 2015 and we ...

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So...It's probably not gonna work out between me and Chicky. She's pretty pissed so I've cut ties. An interesting note though - She's just been using me for information when she realized it wouldn't be anything more. Mining info ... Read More

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Talking to a Viet girl in HCMC. Need some clarity. by Nielsen Flute

Hello everyone. I need some advice on how to proceed with this girl I've been talking to for a while. We've been talking to each other for a few years now on and off through Skype/Viber. By chance I was in Saigon for work in 2015 and we ...

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There was a particular conversation we had where I did tell her of my intentions to live long term in Vietnam and I wouldn't be returning to the US for a while. And of course I'm nice where I simply ask her how her apps are doing. She seemed ... Read More

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Talking to a Viet girl in HCMC. Need some clarity. by Nielsen Flute

Hello everyone. I need some advice on how to proceed with this girl I've been talking to for a while. We've been talking to each other for a few years now on and off through Skype/Viber. By chance I was in Saigon for work in 2015 and we ...

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I have followed your posts for a little bit so I know that your perspective is a bit more 'realistic' about relationships with Viet girls and that they do show their true character and colors eventually. I've talked to her about it and ... Read More

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Talking to a Viet girl in HCMC. Need some clarity. by Nielsen Flute

Hello everyone. I need some advice on how to proceed with this girl I've been talking to for a while. We've been talking to each other for a few years now on and off through Skype/Viber. By chance I was in Saigon for work in 2015 and we ...

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There was a particular conversation we had where I did tell her of my intentions to live long term in Vietnam and I wouldn't be returning to the US for a while. And of course I'm nice where I simply ask her how her apps are doing. She seemed ... Read More

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Talking to a Viet girl in HCMC. Need some clarity. by Nielsen Flute

Hello everyone. I need some advice on how to proceed with this girl I've been talking to for a while. We've been talking to each other for a few years now on and off through Skype/Viber. By chance I was in Saigon for work in 2015 and we ...

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You guys are right. I wasn't able to see her during my work assignment because my job was demanding and required 100 percent of my focus. It's something that I do need to communicate to her...and soon. I feel like she thinks I'm ... Read More

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Talking to a Viet girl in HCMC. Need some clarity. by Nielsen Flute

Hello everyone. I need some advice on how to proceed with this girl I've been talking to for a while. We've been talking to each other for a few years now on and off through Skype/Viber. By chance I was in Saigon for work in 2015 and we ...

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Funny thing is she's a Da-Lat transplant who moved to Saigon. Anything specific to that region I should know about? But yes, I have the right mindset and I like Viet women and people a lot since I have a lot of exposure to them in the US. I ... Read More

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Talking to a Viet girl in HCMC. Need some clarity.

Hello everyone. I need some advice on how to proceed with this girl I've been talking to for a while. We've been talking to each other for a few years now on and off through Skype/Viber. By chance I was in Saigon for work in 2015 and we ... Read More

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