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Texan moving south

Howdy, Hola, Oi,


I’m new here and looking for some real-world perspective.


I’m 67 and only partially retired right now. My plan is to retire fully in about two years (maybe sooner) and relocate to Viña del Mar.


A little background so you know where I’m coming from: I was born in Texas, but my family moved to Brazil when I was 3, and I lived there until I was 18. I went to the Escola Americana from kindergarten through 12th grade and graduated in 1976. My mother is Chilean—she moved to the U.S. after WWII for college, where she met my dad—so I guess you could say I’m a full-fledged “mutt” in the best sense.


I came back to the U.S. for college in New Orleans and eventually settled in Houston. Now I’m feeling the pull to head back down south.


What I’m especially curious about is the social side: what’s it like making new Chilean friends as a newcomer (gay and at my age)? My impression is that Chileans can be a bit more reserved than Brazilians, and I’ll admit I’m a Carioca de coração—so I’m used to a more spontaneous, open social style.


Any experiences, advice, or “what I wish I knew before moving” thoughts—especially about meeting people and building friendships in/around Viña—would be really appreciated.


Thanks in advance—gracias, obrigado.


Patrick

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While I am not able to speak to your exact situation (I am straight and a bit younger) I have lived for a year in Vina Del Mar.


What I wish I knew:

  1. Chileans are warm. They bond strongly but it can take time. Authenticity is key.
  2. Transportation requires patience and but is efficient. Micros. Collectivios.
  3. Chilean Spanish is unique. Modismos take time. Context matters.
  4. Use common sense. I never had a safety problem. I recommend an ‘aware but not paranoid’ approach.
  5. Chileans will respect your differences as long as it is a two way street.
  6. Expect some degree of culture shock. I took me about 3 months to feel comfortable.
  7. Witty humor (or ‘doble sentido’ - something with dual meanings) can be welcome and break ice. So long as it is reasonable.
  8. Give it a bit before opining on politics. It’s a complex and fragmented issue there. Don’t assume you fully understand matters related to Pinochet or Allende because you have read a little on line.
  9. Find a sport or activity you love. Helps with making friends.
  10. Avoid leaving valuables unattended on the beach. Climate reminded me of San Diego, but reversed calendar.
  11. Avoid street dogs. Oddly common. They aren’t pets.
  12. Don’t be afraid to get to know Renaca or Con Con.

Sorry about the lack of ~ above my N’s.

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