Hi there!
I am from Romania and I am planning to relocate to Den Bosch in 2019, together with my husband, 2-year old son, and two cats.
I have a few questions that I am hoping you can help me answer.
Hi and welcome to the Forum.
Forgive my snipping your original post.
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To answer your specific questions:
1. Daycare costs. For all cost related questions, I use the Numbeo website; this link will take you there. As to who should look after your child while you are working, all that you mention are options that people use; my wife decided to stop working until the kids were old enough to go to school which begins with what we used to call Kleuterschool (age 4); this has now been absorbed into the elementary schools. As to which childminder, preschool or daycare to use; my advice is to speak to other Dutch mums when you get there. During the period my wife took off, she took the opportunity to upgrade her nursing qualifications.
2. Sick children. It's called "Care Leave"; employees are legally entitled to take (short-term) care leave to look after a sick relative such as a child, partner or parent, extended family members (such as siblings or grandparents) and acquaintances (such as a housemate, neighbour or friend).
Within a 12-month period, employees are entitled to take short-term care leave equal to twice their weekly working hours. So, if you work a 40 hours week, you can use up to 80 hours per year for care leave. During this time you are entitled to at least 70 percent of your pay; we never used it, but this sort of thing will normally be included in the CAO for your workgroup; ask your new employer.
For cases of life-threatening illness, long-term care leave is also possible; up to six times one’s weekly working hours, however, an employer is not obliged to pay any salary during this period.
3. Commuting. Holland isn't that big and has excellent public transport; I know people who commute across the whole country. I wouldn't recommend driving anywhere in the rush hour, commutes as you are currently experiencing are not unusual.
4. University. it's possible, my daughter has just started again while working at her full-time job. Her employer helps out by allowing time off to attend the necessary lectures; ask your new employer.
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Hope this helps.
Cynic
Expat Team