Ciambella: I am curious how you determined that the OP Tyel was female. I looked in the bio page after you started using feminine pronouns but I don't see it. Perhaps it was somewhere in the text, or even in a PM.
I would also like to make a positive comment on Tyel's English fluency. Other than a small tense error, which is oddly in her very first sentence, I have not noticed the kinds of writing errors that are often made by European writers here. As she has not told us of any period of residence or study in Britain or elsewhere, this level of writing correctness is commendable. I expect she could muster a near perfect IELTS writing score. Not all the native speakers on this forum write as well as she does.