Izin tinggal tetap

Kophyo wrote:

I had married Indonesian women two years over.

That makes things easier.
The list above is about right but incomplete.
You'll need a legalised birth certificate and you might be asked for proof you have enough to live on without working.

The rule used to be you have two years on KITAS before applying for KITAP, but I'm way out of date on that one so check it out first.

If you're in Indonesia at the moment - Direct to the nearest immigration office and start the process - You should have little difficulty getting at least a KITAS. I believe these still require going to an Indonesian embassy to get the telex but that might also have changed so check.
Most people recommend Singapore but I prefer KL.