The Jordanian Husband who is in love with his wife will:
1. Honor her...
2. Protect her name and her well being in every way that encompasses
3. Cherish her till death!
4. Provide for her with every amount of strenghth he has!
5. Tell her the truth as much as possible
6. Enjoy spending time with her!
7. Be a natural romantic to her!
I am so proud of my Jordanian Husband and everything about him makes me so happy! We love each other more than ever and our love grows more and more each day .
The Jordanian Husband who loves his wife will also:
1. Make sure his wife is not talked about in a bad way by people.
2. Let you know that when his wife is happy, he is happy!
3. He'll clean the floor for ya by surprise (mine did!)
4. Help his wife when she's sick...
5. Teach her about life
6. Get jealous if she talks to a strange man for no needed reason! (It's a good jealousy!)
7. Will ensure that she is comfortable in all areas of her life!!
The Jordanian Husband who hates his wife will :
1. Avoid her altogether
2. Maybe he might divorce her
3. He might marry another woman besides her (this is an accepted part of the culture!)
4. He will stay away from the house as much as possible.
5. Hardly call her.
So in order for that not to happen::: We western wives have to learn to :
1. Make him happy with a good meal and a clean house when he's there!
2. Respect his family --we may not agree with them or like them, but just respect them.
3. Be very modest and act modest! ( Walk like the Romans, Talk the Romans is Key to success in Jordan)
4. Protect his honor buy not having relationships out of marriage, or by not talking to his friends (nor excepting their numbers) on the phone!
5. Raise their children with dignity and good manners.
6. That you don't laugh out loud in public! (Taboo in Jordan!)
7. To take care of yourself as much as possible --go to the salon, doll yourself up in different ways daily- keep your weight down to a bare minimum--and just be available to him at all times and not give him excuses (My head hurts!) -- And believe me there are ALOT of his relative cousins who'd love to be in your shoes!!