Because I live within the compound, I've been walking around King Fahad Medical City every evening for a few months now and I've experienced my fair share of creepers and stalkers. Avoidance or really loud direct confrontation usually does the trick when dealing with these guys (since KFMC has a heavy traffic of walkers and joggers).
However, last friday Feb 24, 2012, there was an incident of kidnapping in front of KFMC Gate 2 in Dabab St in front of the store Meed. A Palestini-Saudi girl who lives in KFMC was reportedly kidnapped by some guys riding a black GMC at around 7pm while she was on her way to Meed with her younger sister to buy some stuff. Everyone's been talking about it in the hospital but sadly, there's no news of it written anywhere on the internet. She hasn't been found yet.
The last time I walked around KFMC was Thursday. I've always walked unaccompanied because my folks are old and they have health issues. I was supposed to walk from 5pm-8pm that Friday she got kidnapped as well but I was really ill so I stayed home and rested. I keep thinking "It could've been me" or "I could've helped her." over and over upto this day.
I'm still traumatized by the situation. It's not a state I want to be in. I don't want to be paralyzed with fear over something like this. I've survived harassment in my own compound before. I've sent a guy to prison to receive lashes for it. But being groped can't ever compare to being kidnapped, raped, and possibly killed.
My question to the expatriate community is already stated in the subject of this post. How can single girls avoid the above situation from happening to them without locking themselves in their own homes for the rest of their lives? How do you manage your fear? How do you prepare yourself? Are there simple short term self-defense classes for women here?
I've lived in KFMC for quite some time now. We've lived through suicides and murders. A kidnapping is preventable. Can anyone help me so I can prevent it from happening to me? Sincere advice is much appreciated.
Sorry for my lengthy forum post. -___-;;