ibilola
@ibilola
Nigerian looking for information about USA
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Nigerian
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Registration: 21 April 2013
Is having an affair as an expat always inevitable? by Queen of the Suburbs
I hear that expats always end up getting lonely and having affairs? Is this true? Any confessions or stories to share? I'm new to this all and terrified about the prospect of the dynamics of my marriage changing.... Queenie
U HV nothing to be afraid of if u really talk daily with ur partner n trust is cogent. U b fyn Read More
WHY IS LOOKING FOR FRIENDS MISCONCEIVED FOR RELATIONSHIP/OR SEX by ibilola
Dubai is getting me really tired,sometimes you just want to have good platonic friends that could be forever without any illicit feelings but you end up finding,everyone looking for sex,whats happening to keeping the word friendship as it is,even if ...
Well I guess u hv to calm down too to understand that topics differ,you have a right to create your own. There has been no negativity spread about a country,if you read up well,I hv only said here cos I am here and I have also said it happens ... Read More
WHY IS LOOKING FOR FRIENDS MISCONCEIVED FOR RELATIONSHIP/OR SEX by ibilola
Dubai is getting me really tired,sometimes you just want to have good platonic friends that could be forever without any illicit feelings but you end up finding,everyone looking for sex,whats happening to keeping the word friendship as it is,even if ...
Oh ok,am sorry then Read More
WHY IS LOOKING FOR FRIENDS MISCONCEIVED FOR RELATIONSHIP/OR SEX by ibilola
Dubai is getting me really tired,sometimes you just want to have good platonic friends that could be forever without any illicit feelings but you end up finding,everyone looking for sex,whats happening to keeping the word friendship as it is,even if ...
@1969.....weird in wat sense. There is sense in what she has said. Its wrong to be mislead to smtin an individual hasn't assumed. Read More
if i ask u to name 5 things that make u happy what would u say ? by funny lady
mmmmmmmmmm ..i would say -giving help/hope to someone -being loved -being with cool friends -watching stars in the sky -reading a good book WHAT ABOUT U???? :cool:
Sincerity Adopting a child Good life partner Good health Give back to the society A look back in life that i have fulfilled my dreams Read More
Hi there - any professional Nigerians in Dubai? by MHarris
Are there professional nigerians in dubai
lol,are their nigerian professionals in uae,?There are nigerian professionals everywhere,common we are not that low,some work in banks,so many different sectors.....if they are guards,well it still brings food on their table,its all about your ... Read More
Is having an affair as an expat always inevitable? by Queen of the Suburbs
I hear that expats always end up getting lonely and having affairs? Is this true? Any confessions or stories to share? I'm new to this all and terrified about the prospect of the dynamics of my marriage changing.... Queenie
Well the inevitable is always by virtue of lies in most cases, Tell me,Most expats here say,they are not married, they are divorced,all manners, it will be better in most cases to know that Real affair is quite far in this Land,its stroke is slim, ... Read More
WHY IS LOOKING FOR FRIENDS MISCONCEIVED FOR RELATIONSHIP/OR SEX by ibilola
Dubai is getting me really tired,sometimes you just want to have good platonic friends that could be forever without any illicit feelings but you end up finding,everyone looking for sex,whats happening to keeping the word friendship as it is,even if ...
Lol,I laughed so hard at shawn's comment. True but all sexes can have dirty mind, But not all. Well on this converse,what I meant was that why do u get to make friendship from your heart only fetched on platonic platform,and the opposite sex ... Read More
Organize an Expat blog meet-up! by Julien
Hi all, Should you want to organize a gathering with the other members, in your town, we would be pleased to help :). It is indeed a great way to meet new people, isn't it? If you would like to plan a get-together, do not hesitate to ...
Well I feel jogging n other means are ways u can kill shyness to meet faster,esp for pple that have inter woven interest, and also live within same vicinity, it doesn't have to be consecrated to a particular stuff,I buy that idea n dnt see it ... Read More
Racism by Julien
Do you feel racism in your country? Is it complicated to integrate yoursleft with local people or are you used to it? I really like London because the city is a lot of people from everywhere, and everybody seems to be integrated. I don't feel ...
Interesting....I read a place saying Dubai is really very nice,and been one of the Best places with so many nationalities in the city,this is so true,well maybe because of your nationality .I would say that Dubai is very sexy in this areas,cos its a ... Read More
I have small scars in my lungs xray positive TST and negative sputom. by bulantoy
Assallamo allaicom Hi evry one I am shie I am now here in uae and I got the first result of my medical before in my previous company I have a small scars in my x-ray positive tb skin test but negative sputom test... Then the labor approved my mdcal ...
Hmmm this is quite strange because months Ago I did my medical test and a scar via the x-ray, was found on my chest and this gave about an apprehensive continual for sputum test which came out negative,I cudnt explain to them that d scar might have ... Read More
.looking for an advice. by moutazz
.hello .hope you are all good.i have two questions i hope i will find answers from you friends. 1.when a person be in dubai for job hunting.which effective ways he.she may uses it to get more chance find a job. 2.where can find a map for a ...
I never said in dubizzle,I meant for jobs in dubai,its a job site on its own,they send out your cv ,in a week,u shud have interviews which is ok,as there is a higher probability to getting job faster n where u dnt get to have a job in 4months,your ... Read More
.looking for an advice. by moutazz
.hello .hope you are all good.i have two questions i hope i will find answers from you friends. 1.when a person be in dubai for job hunting.which effective ways he.she may uses it to get more chance find a job. 2.where can find a map for a ...
I never said in dubizzle,I meant for jobs in dubai,its a job site on its own,they send out your cv ,in a week,u shud have interviews which is ok,as there is a higher probability to getting job faster n where u dnt get to have a job in 4months,your ... Read More
.looking for an advice. by moutazz
.hello .hope you are all good.i have two questions i hope i will find answers from you friends. 1.when a person be in dubai for job hunting.which effective ways he.she may uses it to get more chance find a job. 2.where can find a map for a ...
I never said in dubizzle,I meant for jobs in dubai,its a job site on its ownthey send out your cv ,in a week,u shud have interviews which is ok,as there is a higher probability to getting job faster n where u dnt get to have a job in 4months,your ... Read More
The Best and Worst Things About Living and Working in Dubai
Too Hot,sunny as Hell. No matter how long you lived here as well,you forever remain as an expat-lol. Well the Best thing can also meeting different nationalities you least expect and getting a glimpse into their lives and cultures without having to ... Read More
.looking for an advice. by moutazz
.hello .hope you are all good.i have two questions i hope i will find answers from you friends. 1.when a person be in dubai for job hunting.which effective ways he.she may uses it to get more chance find a job. 2.where can find a map for a ...
Well you could job hurt via,Dubizzle,jobs in dubai of which you will have to pay 80 dollars via online,its really effective,you could subscribe to indeed... On the Algerians only being able to work here,No,except I dnt rilly understd wat you saying. ... Read More
What's the best way to invest us$ 25000 money? by Civil_Engr
I'm looking to invest some money, and I want to know the best way to do this. If any of you have any advice, drop me a line (not interested in Bank Deposit). Much appreciated. Thank you.
If you were a buisness person,this would sound as a very Good idea if you digest it well,I have been living here for a while and I haven't second Best in children's shoe after SHOE MART here in dubai,they are so patronized cos no one does it ... Read More
What's the best way to invest us$ 25000 money? by Civil_Engr
I'm looking to invest some money, and I want to know the best way to do this. If any of you have any advice, drop me a line (not interested in Bank Deposit). Much appreciated. Thank you.
If you were a buisness person,this would sound as a very Good idea if you digest it well,I have been living here for a while and I haven't second Best in children's shoe after SHOE MART here in dubai,they are so patronized cos no one does it ... Read More
What's the best way to invest us$ 25000 money? by Civil_Engr
I'm looking to invest some money, and I want to know the best way to do this. If any of you have any advice, drop me a line (not interested in Bank Deposit). Much appreciated. Thank you.
If you were a buisness person,this would sound as a very Good idea if you digest it well,I have been living here for a while and I haven't second Best in children's shoe after SHOE MART here in dubai,they are so patronized cos no one does it ... Read More
Dubai residency visa
@rotimi,will reply u via ur inbox. I will b notified as to, off topic. Regrds Read More
WHY IS LOOKING FOR FRIENDS MISCONCEIVED FOR RELATIONSHIP/OR SEX by ibilola
Dubai is getting me really tired,sometimes you just want to have good platonic friends that could be forever without any illicit feelings but you end up finding,everyone looking for sex,whats happening to keeping the word friendship as it is,even if ...
@tilly...Hmmm, Friendship isn't really love,its a Faith to it though, well that's what I think, sometimes I also think we try to guard the Heart but it wouldn't let go.. Well on this, I as a person like to keep to the Game, but I dnt ... Read More
WHY IS LOOKING FOR FRIENDS MISCONCEIVED FOR RELATIONSHIP/OR SEX by ibilola
Dubai is getting me really tired,sometimes you just want to have good platonic friends that could be forever without any illicit feelings but you end up finding,everyone looking for sex,whats happening to keeping the word friendship as it is,even if ...
Here is a Message I got, she wants to be Anonymous, sorry I posted late Lola if I get to have a male friend as my Buddy,and honestly I have no one understanding me like he does and he hasn't had the Best in relationships too,if I take a bold ... Read More
10000 AED for couple & one kid
Well if you live in sharjah and your office in dubai,its best left at that as I don't know the distance of ur work place. Accommodation in sharjah at least one room you should get 20000 full year but in dubai 2500 per month,giving you in total ... Read More
10000 AED for couple & one kid
From my little knowledge, you will have to make visa for both of them,ur wife will have to be on ur visa inclusive with child,only if she gets a job within the space of the eligible 2mths I can say well that's a free headache for you but I guess ... Read More
WHY IS LOOKING FOR FRIENDS MISCONCEIVED FOR RELATIONSHIP/OR SEX by ibilola
Dubai is getting me really tired,sometimes you just want to have good platonic friends that could be forever without any illicit feelings but you end up finding,everyone looking for sex,whats happening to keeping the word friendship as it is,even if ...
I dnt think so,I guess the same is complained globally, its not limited to here, but of cors,maybe higher than home,its been to be judged by individuals in each zone, well I guess Read More
WHY IS LOOKING FOR FRIENDS MISCONCEIVED FOR RELATIONSHIP/OR SEX by ibilola
Dubai is getting me really tired,sometimes you just want to have good platonic friends that could be forever without any illicit feelings but you end up finding,everyone looking for sex,whats happening to keeping the word friendship as it is,even if ...
According to the dictionary friendship is a feeling and behaviour that exist between people, but what these feelings are and what this behaviour is everyone should decide for himself. I consider that friendship is a gift from the God. that's why ... Read More
job offer with 45000 pm by sood6060
Hi all, I got a job offer with a salary of 45000 AED pm from a abudhabi based company.Currently living in Gurgaon (India).Right now I am getting approx. 330000 INR pm salary in India in my current job.Is it advisable for me to shift to ...
True, its not cheap at all....its all about ur life style Read More
WHY IS LOOKING FOR FRIENDS MISCONCEIVED FOR RELATIONSHIP/OR SEX by ibilola
Dubai is getting me really tired,sometimes you just want to have good platonic friends that could be forever without any illicit feelings but you end up finding,everyone looking for sex,whats happening to keeping the word friendship as it is,even if ...
@alamina- we are humans and its noted that we all can't be the same just like some nationalities are considered weird, we still see good people in them. Friendship means to me, YOU ARE ME. It takes time to get to that stage,it sees storm, it ... Read More
WHY IS LOOKING FOR FRIENDS MISCONCEIVED FOR RELATIONSHIP/OR SEX by ibilola
Dubai is getting me really tired,sometimes you just want to have good platonic friends that could be forever without any illicit feelings but you end up finding,everyone looking for sex,whats happening to keeping the word friendship as it is,even if ...
@thunder....I dnt believe a man and a woman can't be friends,My best friend is a guy,far away in canada now, its just exposure and trusting whom you dealing with. Dnt expect friendship to lead to anything and if it does,you both can talk about ... Read More
WHY IS LOOKING FOR FRIENDS MISCONCEIVED FOR RELATIONSHIP/OR SEX by ibilola
Dubai is getting me really tired,sometimes you just want to have good platonic friends that could be forever without any illicit feelings but you end up finding,everyone looking for sex,whats happening to keeping the word friendship as it is,even if ...
I think friendship can be made anywhere.... It just depends on the timing sometimes.... I dnt want us to limit or argue about eastern or no western, I only think he limited it, to that becos it could be in the circle of where he has traveled to or ... Read More
WHY IS LOOKING FOR FRIENDS MISCONCEIVED FOR RELATIONSHIP/OR SEX by ibilola
Dubai is getting me really tired,sometimes you just want to have good platonic friends that could be forever without any illicit feelings but you end up finding,everyone looking for sex,whats happening to keeping the word friendship as it is,even if ...
I see nothing more so respectful than friendship, its the foundation for all truthful things. Sex things is just by the way,mutual things also by the way. Sometimes you just need a friend, but here,its what are you looking for,they need the casual ... Read More
Offer Letter
Life here can be so nice yet clumsy at times, after offer letter, you have medicals to tackle again,all expats pray to pass,there has been mistakes too,so anything can go wrong from an offer letter to anything. Glad you are strong already,wish you ... Read More
Offer Letter
lol, this reminds me of a friend who was offered offer letter and never given a visa after her visa expiration,lotssss go on here, 2 months is honestly too long not to be in by now,as said,you should call, but dnt keep your hopes too high anymore, ... Read More
WHY IS LOOKING FOR FRIENDS MISCONCEIVED FOR RELATIONSHIP/OR SEX by ibilola
Dubai is getting me really tired,sometimes you just want to have good platonic friends that could be forever without any illicit feelings but you end up finding,everyone looking for sex,whats happening to keeping the word friendship as it is,even if ...
Yea this is something i ask myself,i get to meet people and i just want to be friends but they cant take it that way,if it has to lead to anything of which it doesnt necessarily have to be, they get hurt and i hear after meeting is,i live here,would ... Read More
WHY IS LOOKING FOR FRIENDS MISCONCEIVED FOR RELATIONSHIP/OR SEX
Dubai is getting me really tired,sometimes you just want to have good platonic friends that could be forever without any illicit feelings but you end up finding,everyone looking for sex,whats happening to keeping the word friendship as it is,even if ... Read More
Hello all, is it legal for my employer to take my passport? by iloveapple
Hello all, My employer is trying to make me to give them my passport. They have gotten my Labour Card lately and told me that I can only hold on to either one. If i choose to hold on to my labour card i would have to give them my passport and if i ...
if this is not legal,why do our employers collect our passports,it beats my mind Read More
job offer with 45000 pm by sood6060
Hi all, I got a job offer with a salary of 45000 AED pm from a abudhabi based company.Currently living in Gurgaon (India).Right now I am getting approx. 330000 INR pm salary in India in my current job.Is it advisable for me to shift to ...
Well not shocked as a new graduate local is usually started in most cases than not with 15000aed. Some Locals collect more than you can fathom as they grow in years of experience that an expat can't even. Read More
job offer with 45000 pm by sood6060
Hi all, I got a job offer with a salary of 45000 AED pm from a abudhabi based company.Currently living in Gurgaon (India).Right now I am getting approx. 330000 INR pm salary in India in my current job.Is it advisable for me to shift to ...
exactly, i will like to kw as well Read More
Organize an Expat blog meet-up! by Julien
Hi all, Should you want to organize a gathering with the other members, in your town, we would be pleased to help :). It is indeed a great way to meet new people, isn't it? If you would like to plan a get-together, do not hesitate to ...
gosh is so boring,will be glad Read More
Is having an affair as an expat always inevitable? by Queen of the Suburbs
I hear that expats always end up getting lonely and having affairs? Is this true? Any confessions or stories to share? I'm new to this all and terrified about the prospect of the dynamics of my marriage changing.... Queenie
@pat1, Allow me to say this,All men cant be cheating out there,its so unfortunate your husband stayed put with this 30sometin year old girl,and cheated on you,bullshitting all the past years storms and glory together. Get strong,take a long walk and ... Read More
Is having an affair as an expat always inevitable? by Queen of the Suburbs
I hear that expats always end up getting lonely and having affairs? Is this true? Any confessions or stories to share? I'm new to this all and terrified about the prospect of the dynamics of my marriage changing.... Queenie
As much said that cheating can only be done if one wants to, But ever heard,No man is infallible.. I have seen people of Great integrity fall and keep it secret how they fell. So many times this happens even when we love our family, now this ... Read More
Dubai Family-Spouse Visa Min Salary 10000 AED required ? it's true
Nope its actually 8000AED. You can subscribe to UAE visa,thereby you get all information via mail on what is, in uae as a country Read More
Emirates ID Card (how long time it takes to receive?) by carol_admufba
Hi, I wanna hear from you how long time it took for yoy to receive ur emirates id card? It usually takes 10 working days (they say this) what I wanna check about the average Tks
In total, I just counted from the day I walked in to wen it came out,totaling 12days Read More
ban in dubai because of having lung scar by kristinakim
i just came in dubai on visit visa and fortunately i got hired. then i i go for medical. first blood test then xray. after the xray the radilogist told me to go to room i forgot the number. after that go to another room for blood test and sputum. i ...
Let me also state a Hear say from my boss who is been in dubai for over 30years, He said after 5 years,90 per of this Bans are lifted ,How true this is,I can't tell but just a scar in lungs,how painful. I thought only transferable disease are ... Read More
ban in dubai because of having lung scar by kristinakim
i just came in dubai on visit visa and fortunately i got hired. then i i go for medical. first blood test then xray. after the xray the radilogist told me to go to room i forgot the number. after that go to another room for blood test and sputum. i ...
Yes there is a permanent ban in health issues or where victims have been blacklisted n there are also temporary bans too. I was most fortunate as wen I did my medical there,I had a scar on my chest but I was most definitely sure I had a good clean ... Read More