EU integration of Ukraine is rather a costly escapade!

Hello, europeans! I am a Ukrainian and I wnat to say that ukrainians eager to bring things to normal in our country a.s.a.p. and  are doing rightly when we expect Europeans to help us. I know that it's really huge irritant with many europeans that people of Ukraine rely on EU aid so strongly.
You should be real, folks! All in all, european integration of Ukraine is actually the EU big project. And you must help Ukrainians both with money and effort! It's plain clear imo.
Authorities of Ukraine have actually victimized our populace for sake of EU integration. We have to dismantle many habitual things now, which doesn't make all Ukrainians happy of course.  The country is in fact split now with war still going on.  But EU countries can't keep aside and just witness how badly it's going on in Ukraine now. You also have to make some victims and tighten our belts and reduce some social spending maybe ... well.... to allocate more money for Ukraine!
I guess you are from being so naïve as to imagine that things may improve just by themselves in Ukraine. I guess you don't think that major part of Ukrainians will just go to Russia to settle there and grant into EU sole possession vast fertile lands of Ukraine. No way!  Alas, those are just sweet dreams.  Stay real folks - you had to forsee it - EU integration of Ukraine is rather a costly escapade!