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I am in Cebu.
tom mc cormack wrote:thanks for the rapid responce,i dont care less about politicans but looking at the sceaneary and the country in general i really could live there is it safe ? i would imagine in manilla (like any major city ) it would be dangerous but the outskirts/country would be o.k. and do the locals mind foringers or do they mistrust us ? just trying to think on the causious side ( excuse my spelling !! )
Cannot over emphasize how important it would be to become friends and gaining the trust of the locals no matter where you are. The cities may be more dangerous, but out in the province everyone will get to know you are there because you will stick out like the proverbial sore thumb. If you are a single male this will give you a better chance with the local maidens but also make you a target of scams. Coming from the west you will also be viewed by some as a walking bank. For me it worked best back in the 1990's to write to many penpals before I came to Manila by myself, only knowing the people I was meeting. Today you can do the online thing, realizing that there will be scammers playing many men at once. As mentioned, most men who follow simple directions can fit in and enjoy themselves on less than they would at home. Also arranging to meet some expats would help you ease into the situation. I do not think you should burn all of your bridges in Ireland before ever setting foot in the Philippines, for on here you will hear nothing but success stories, since the ones who were not successful will probably not be on this blog. GOOD LUCK!!
one of the main things that i dislike about ireland is the weather,we dont have regular seasons at the moment it is very windy,wet,cold and grey and will continue like that until the end of next march ! and after that only slightly warmer and not as wet and our summer might consist of 2 or 3 weeks of sunshine and ive had a lifetime of that !!!
tom mc cormack wrote:sounds like good advise and i would definatly want to meet the locals and try to learn the language,stay away from the cities,travel and eventually find a nice quit place to stay and live a relitivaly quiet life
one of the main things that i dislike about ireland is the weather,we dont have regular seasons at the moment it is very windy,wet,cold and grey and will continue like that until the end of next march ! and after that only slightly warmer and not as wet and our summer might consist of 2 or 3 weeks of sunshine and ive had a lifetime of that !!!
Please remember the weather you will get will be hot and humid, followed by a rainy season with floods and typhoons. If you come this time of year until February you will find it very pleasant, but not an indication of the March to October life here. Not sure you know what the quiet life here means, for the cities have the usual noises of all cities, while out in the provinces you will not need an alarm clock, there are plenty of chickens and dogs, plus an occasional cat, to make sure you are up before the sun. Starting at 5:30 AM we hear the bells of various venders selling food products roaming through the barrios When the children are in school afternoon naps are the norm, it is just a matter of adjusting yourself to the locale you have chosen..
as for respecting the locals,as i see it if im living in their country ill totally respect their customs/ways and as im fifty years old my days of partying and messing around with women is long gone
to old for that ( well nearly )thanks for the advise and if you got any thing else to suggest please let me know
thanks tom
Pete

tom mc cormack wrote:im sure i would acclimatise to the heat,i suppose it would be best to go in the "winter"and ease myself into the summer heat and go to higher altitudes if it gets to hot for me.how many people live in the town or city where you are ? and did you pick up any of the local language ? ( i.e tagalog ) ive googled it and it aint nothing like english !! allthough i would try to learn i imagine the locals would appericate that.
Tagalog is the most common language, but depending on where you settle you could be hearing one of over 30 dialects. Even though I am on Luzon, the locals here speak Ilocano, not Tagalog, and some speak both. The only easy think I have seen so far is that they count in Spanish. Boondocks is the only Filipino word I know of used in English.
you must select the area u will live on the climate for example where we live there is Mt Isagou the further up the mountain u go thr cooler it is, we have rode up there to visit friends on a very hot day 35c once there I check it was 28c

just get your arse over here an enjoy
Pete
blueoakey wrote:Ok Tom, I see ur point, but to be realistic the main reason all us expats are here is the wonderful filipino women, they are the gem of the female race, im 64yo an am happily married to a 41yo, bloody hell old mate better than exploring the world.
just get your arse over here an enjoy
Pete
100% agreement here
Anyway...if you can manage it...make an exploratory visit to the Philippines...and go to other places besides Manila.
You'll probably have to land in Manila...so you can't avoid going there...but the sooner you can get out of the city and into the provinces...the better you'll enjoy it. As suggested by others in this forum...make friends, get around and explore. It's ok. I felt much safer in the Philippines than I do in most cities in the U.S. As anywhere else in this world...you'll find good people...and bad ones. So far, in all the years I've lived in the Philippines...I've never been robbed, mugged or harassed. In the U.S., just in the first two years living there...I have been robbed, nearly mugged and certainly threatened several times. Yes, I am a foreigner in the Philippines....but I never felt like I was in all the years I lived there. If you find the right place for you....learn the language. Yes, I know...practically everyone speaks English. But it would be a lot more fun if you can speak the local language (or dialect).
Well...best of luck to you.
p.s as im irish (and as most irish people do ) i complain about the weather ! ( a lot )
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Thanks
Priscilla
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Take a trip a check out the country
Dip your toe in the water for a few months..its much warmer than Ireland
A good start would also be to know that Philippines has one "L" as does Manila
unless the subject is about stationary supplies
just shows how much i know about the philippines ! (just as well i have at least 1.5 years do some (well,a lot !)of research) at the moment im watching youtube clips from a guy called rickky and so far so good
tom mc cormack wrote:hi puti
just shows how much i know about the philippines ! (just as well i have at least 1.5 years do some (well,a lot !)of research) at the moment im watching youtube clips from a guy called rickky and so far so good
So Tom, you are planning to visit the Philippines in April of 2016? That's a lot of utube watching.
im just researching all aspects i.e climate,geography,economy and the general "lay of the land" like as if im going to live there ide like to know as much about the place before i go there 
)I Am Belgian and live in the Philippines, married to a Filipina .
We are with a group of foreign friends here, mixt nationalities(English, Swiss, German, Austria, Belgium)
We come together a few times a week in a coffee shop here in Manila.
All is married to a Filipina and live here permanently.
Honestly spoken, non of them(include me)like to live here in the Philippines.
My wife and myself preparing to go back to Belgium.
The only thing what is good in the Philippines,is the cost of living(its cheap)
The corruption is out of proportion, there are no rules, everybody do whatever he like to do.
I just advice you to try to live a few month here, and look what you think of it.
Its easy to come here,buth difficult to go back (believe me)
the homeowners are in court constantly
Peter
That's also the reason why we move back to Belgium ,because of the problems in our subdivision, such
as barking dogs, loud music, party's ,drinking in the street, when homeowners arrive in the night they use there car horns so the maid can open the gate, and go one, and one...........................
We live in a top class subdivision with the most annoying people in the world, and that's the same what my foreign friends experience here.
And its correct, when you complain in the barangay about all this, they don't like to here you.
Personally can say nothing good about the Philippines, even my wife who is Filipina don't like it here anymore (this say enough, don't you think so?
Werner
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