Worried Mum

Ooooh yes,we have what we call beach boys  and high rate of unemployed men at the coast who lie/ woo white people just for money.for me she is better of with you coz here she will be misused,made pregnant and later live a miserable life here in Kenya.let her not come back here.it is an annoying trend here in the Kenyan coast.im concerned, anything else I can do for you let me know.i, m Faith a teacher .

Something else,nairobi is a better lifestyle for her,she will find like-minded people,and also there are several international schools.why can't she relocate and she  disband any contacts from that goon and also somebody to keep watch on her,however I insist I guess she is better of with you.as a parent it's very discouraging to see your girls living with uneducated,unemployedman with this kind of Kenyan economy.it,s humiliating..my thoughts.

Heyy, oh I'm sorry to hear that! I'm originally from the coast, and I'll tell you for a fact that people living in the coastal region are known to be lazy, haha. Shame in us *face palm*. Anyway, concerning your daughter's situation, since I don't know her nor the man, I can only give you what I think. It's very possible that the man is taking advantage of or getting support from her. Maybe that's why she's almost needing more money for sustenance. However, it could be poor financial management, low salary and high living expenses or even a finance draining "project" or "business" she may be embarking on.
My take would be to talk with her about her relationship and lifestyle so that you have insight on what may be the problem. Also, if possible, the dad could visit or keep tabs with her for the sake of peace of mind?

I'm 23 and I have been living on my own since I was 20 so I understand where you could be coming from...my mom also worried a lot at first. But it's actually okay to let her keep working and living here, as long as she's healthy and she has a bit of guidance in the direction she should take.

Hope it helps!
Merceline Ambiyo