What steps to take to marry a Malaysian man (wp holder in Singapore)?

Hi, are there any female Singaporeans married to a male Malaysian work permit holder (who is working in Singapore)? My plan is to stay in JB and work in Singapore. I would like to know the steps you took to start a life together(Housing, children etc).  Any information would be of help. Thank you.  :)

Suggest you join the Facebook  group Foreign Spouses Support Group as they have lots of information available and answer questions - https://www.facebook.com/FSSGMY/

Thank you for your reply! I did check out the group before and asked them questions but i would prefer to know from people who have personally went through it so i can be more certain.

Good you checked out their complete guide to marrying a Malaysian and the immigration rules, including the 6 month wait until being able to apply for a LTSVP. That group has the most reliable information available and are also lobbying for better support and fair rules for foreign spouses.