I had a post about my marriage problem several days ago,
and I am still struggling.
This time, I want to ask about legal side of this problem.
I am Korean male, born 1983.
I got married with a Vietnamese female for 2 years (+1 year of dating)
We had an argument over some issue several weeks ago, and now she is staying in her mother's house since 2 weeks ago.
All she is saying now is, she want divorce, she don't feel interested in me(husband) anymore.
I tried to get her back really hard but every time I tried she just went further back.
Our marriage was overall quiet. we didn't have much problem except that she think I don't understand her. we already had fight over this problem several times before.
She was student when we have met, and I kept supported her studying (both financially & emotionally) after marriage until she finally got a job 2 month ago.
Now she just want to get divorced before it is too late to start a new life.
But I don't want that happen. I want to improve myself up to her standard and I want to learn how to make her feel happier.
I know it sounds silly.
But the thing is, she is saying that she will take legal step to get divorced with or without my consent.
I don't have any measurable property here in Vietnam. We don't have baby yet.
What will happen in this case?
Does she really can get us divorced without my consent? she told me she will use some kind of service for divorce process, so I don't have to even sign the paper, she said. is it really possible? for me, it is hard to believe.
All I want is saving this marriage.
But until she changes her mind by herself, I think I will not try to change her mind anymore. every effort now only make her draw further.