Planning to marry a turkish woman is already married and has a child

Relationships with divorcees are neither automatically successful nor automatically doomed.
But without knowing you and her, how can we make any comments on the success chances?
(The same applies to your reactions of her husband and her daughter.)
I can only congratulate you on your open mind  and adventurousness for wanting to try this, but also advise to not make any commitments before you have met and got to know each other (which takes weeks or months) in the real world, not by Internet/phone while staying far apart!

beppi wrote:

Relationships with divorcees are neither automatically successful nor automatically doomed.
But without knowing you and her, how can we make any comments on the success chances?
(The same applies to your reactions of her husband and her daughter.)
I can only congratulate you on your open mind  and adventurousness for wanting to try this, but also advise to not make any commitments before you have met and got to know each other (which takes weeks or months) in the real world, not by Internet/phone while staying far apart!

sometimes this type of marriage brings a huge happiness ,sometimes bring bad. as the child is very little so easily she accept you as her father. may be your lovers ex husband brings chaos in yours life. so going to there I dont want you fell in real trouble,better you propose that lady as she comes to India where you marry her then you shift anywhere in this world for real life with her.

Hi Syed, 

This is a very delicate issue.  You are now at a crossroad in your life.
Remember those who brought you up: they invested in you.  It is high time you consult with them.
If you disregard them and your marriage fails, there will be lots of cries: your wife, them and you.  If you listen to them and the marriage fails, at least you showed them respect and you can look them in the eyes, not be ashamed of the failed marriage.  The tears will be only your wife's and yours.

You ask us about Turkey because you are subconsciously hoping we will encourage you to go to Turkey.  You are at an important moment in your life and the natural destructive temptation is for you to wish to hear from other people what you want to hear.
When you asked in your other thread whether Turkey is a good Muslim country for your relocation, I immediately knew you found honey there.
Do not eliminate those who loved you in the past and paid for your school from your decision process now!

Also, is there a serious need for you to marry right now?  There will be many marriage opportunities at all ages waiting for you.

Also, something else now.
Did you think that instead of you playing savior of battered women, you can find somebody who waits for a nice guy like you to start life together on a really good footing?
How about you find a girl 6-8 years younger than you, take her to your parents, go visit her parents, and help her with going to school if she did not finish school yet?
Can you create an immaculate wife fulfilling the dreams of a young lady to have a family or do you unjustifiably want to play savior?

Talk to your parents (or whosoever brought you up).  You owe it to them.

I do not know your situation. If you are an orphan with nobody to turn to for advice, go see a matrimonial specialist for a professional opinion. Also, you - as a religious person - may easily consult with your priest BUT NOT if you have parents.
Do not second-guess you parents if they have been good ones!

Thank you mr john I was really waiting for some advise from you. My father died last year and my MOM gave me full right to chose any girl I want in marriage the only condition she had was the girl should have good family background and she should be Muslim.
Also my MOM doesn't have a issue with me marrying a foreign girl infact she said she would like to see it. Also my MOM also believes that there is no future or in abroad there is better future as compared to india. Infact she even wants my sis to get married to a foreign Indian guy.
But I haven't told her about this turkish lady. Bcoz i think she might tell me why not marry a unmarried girl.
Regarding Turkey Yes now I feel it's like a dream and i better forget about it. 90% of the turkish ppl are given me negative feedback.
Once I remember in india I had a box in which I had ny asthma medication. I was at work. So the guy sitting next to me saw the box and he said OMG kamran has a bomb. He was a hindu Maharashtran. He said this just bcoz I am muslim. I felt very bad but I couldn't complain to any one. I have also faced similar situations before.
Anyways, I guess I should forget about turkey and just continue staying in GULF till finally one day they kick me out of here and then I will go back to India...
I just wished my future son or daughter would not have to face the discrimination and difficulties which I faced in india for just being a Muslim...
Thank you all for you advise and suggestions.

Why doesn't she get a divorce if she is not happy with her husband?
Without the divorce how can she plan a marriage with you?
Normally this daughter's Dad may visit her always and you have no rights to stop him.
In another thread you told the difficulties in living in India with ill-treating of others.
Now you are talking of another risky situation. Why always these stress-full life situations ? Don't you like to have a calm life without this type of issues?

mal wrote:

Why doesn't she get a divorce if she is not happy with her husband?
Without the divorce how can she plan a marriage with you?
Normally this daughter's Dad may visit her always and you have no rights to stop him.
In another thread you told the difficulties in living in India with ill-treating of others.
Now you are talking of another risky situation. Why always these stress-full life situations ? Don't you like to have a calm life without this type of issues?

Yes i would like to have a calm life without these type of issues...

I have decided.
I will not marry her.
Thank you all for ur feedback.

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syedkamran84 wrote:

I have decided.
I will not marry her.
Thank you all for ur feedback.

Hi Syed,

Great news. How old are you?

I am 29 although I look a little younger then my age but it's no point in hiding my age.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WAv4Q3LQeWE

Please watch this video guys and provide me your valuable feedback.
thnks

syedkamran84 wrote:

I am 29 although I look a little younger then my age but it's no point in hiding my age.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WAv4Q3LQeWE

Please watch this video guys and provide me your valuable feedback.
thnks

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Hi Syed,

For 29 of age you must be more mature than appearances. 

Where is your picture? Why did you remove it?

syedkamran84 wrote:

I have decided.
I will not marry her.
Thank you all for ur feedback.

Great! ... 
This is one of you major decisions in your life.
You passed the test.  Remember to never fall in the same trap twice.

Now hurry up to a new life.