Hi everyone,
I am currently working in Dubai and might be transferred by my company to KSA soon with Dammam or Khobar as possible office locations. I am a single father with 3 very young kids, which would be moving with me.
As they're very young they need 24hr care and can not be left alone.Because of that I have currently the help of a live in maid, who does the all the daily routine of cleaning, shopping, cooking, but for me most importantly having an eye on the kids, e.g.picking up from school, bringing to playdates etc, when I am at work.
Currently I am living in a gated Community in Dubai and it more or less works quite well.
The questions I am having are:
1) I understand as a single man, even with kids, I am not allowed to have a live-in nanny. Are there alternatives around? I need also someone I can trust, which is actually the most important point. If yes, I might be able to bring my current nanny, but I also have to consider hiring one there, as she has family here, and understandably, wouldn't want to move.
2) I would be living in a compound, here I would like to know if there are compounds with schools inside. If the schools are outside, is there a Bus Service from the compound. Is it safe?
3) I understand that in the compounds getting around is no problem and it is safe. Can I keep the kids busy with activities within the compound, e.g. tennis classes, football teams, dancing, ballet etc.?
If outside, I would need a driver, do I need hire one full time? Can I hire one full time and what are the costs? Also in case the activities are outside, can the nanny drive with the driver in one car as they're not related?
4) Can Bahrain considered as an alternative to live in order to avoid all this problems in KSA? In that case I would need to commute, and read/ experienced how long it can take to cross the border. In that case I wouldn't mind getting a VIP Pass if it would really help. I prefer to spent quality time with my kids rather than driving and not seeing them.
My main focus is the safety & comfort of the kids.
So many questions and I would really appreciate all your feedbacks on this topic.
Thx
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