fredgo
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Getting married, but have doubts... by fredgo
Hi all, I am new to this site, so bear with me. To the point, I have finally met a woman in Viet Nam that I love truly. In fact, I just spent 3 months with her in Nam Dinh and at the end I asked her to marry me. She is divorced and 2 children ...
So now you're going to move to Viet Nam and open a restaurant because "your friend" has been bugging you for years to do so? Do you have so sense of self preservation? Like the old saying goes, "A fool and his money are soon ... Read More
Getting married, but have doubts... by fredgo
Hi all, I am new to this site, so bear with me. To the point, I have finally met a woman in Viet Nam that I love truly. In fact, I just spent 3 months with her in Nam Dinh and at the end I asked her to marry me. She is divorced and 2 children ...
That's very smart. You certainly don't want to end up like this guy ;-)Yikes! No I don't! Read More
Getting married, but have doubts... by fredgo
Hi all, I am new to this site, so bear with me. To the point, I have finally met a woman in Viet Nam that I love truly. In fact, I just spent 3 months with her in Nam Dinh and at the end I asked her to marry me. She is divorced and 2 children ...
So good to get your comment especially! 1. No, I misled you then. I did not mean idle chat. It was slow at first but became strong and romantic. She always wanted to be slow. Anyway, that is past. I just miss that time. 2. I agree with ... Read More
Getting married, but have doubts... by fredgo
Hi all, I am new to this site, so bear with me. To the point, I have finally met a woman in Viet Nam that I love truly. In fact, I just spent 3 months with her in Nam Dinh and at the end I asked her to marry me. She is divorced and 2 children ...
yes. That is the problem. There is no reason to block me as I am her fiance. All I get right now is not to talk about it but just trust. And that most vn women do not put their "love" on facebook. And it is kind of true. I have seen ... Read More
Getting married, but have doubts... by fredgo
Hi all, I am new to this site, so bear with me. To the point, I have finally met a woman in Viet Nam that I love truly. In fact, I just spent 3 months with her in Nam Dinh and at the end I asked her to marry me. She is divorced and 2 children ...
Thanks! I really did read your whole post! Read More
Getting married, but have doubts... by fredgo
Hi all, I am new to this site, so bear with me. To the point, I have finally met a woman in Viet Nam that I love truly. In fact, I just spent 3 months with her in Nam Dinh and at the end I asked her to marry me. She is divorced and 2 children ...
Sorry. Where have I said or wrote I am unsatisfied with responses. I am actually very happy because of the responses here. It's better than I could hope for. I'd say yours is the first one that though being tongue and cheek, it is not ... Read More
Getting married, but have doubts... by fredgo
Hi all, I am new to this site, so bear with me. To the point, I have finally met a woman in Viet Nam that I love truly. In fact, I just spent 3 months with her in Nam Dinh and at the end I asked her to marry me. She is divorced and 2 children ...
Thanks. I will confront her after Friday. It's her birthday on Friday, so, don't want to put myself into that with what could be an argument or worse until afterward. I will know something probably this Sunday. Thanks for your answer! ... Read More
Getting married, but have doubts... by fredgo
Hi all, I am new to this site, so bear with me. To the point, I have finally met a woman in Viet Nam that I love truly. In fact, I just spent 3 months with her in Nam Dinh and at the end I asked her to marry me. She is divorced and 2 children ...
Sorry. I just realized that the quote was "added" to. And not your original post. Sorry. Read More
Getting married, but have doubts... by fredgo
Hi all, I am new to this site, so bear with me. To the point, I have finally met a woman in Viet Nam that I love truly. In fact, I just spent 3 months with her in Nam Dinh and at the end I asked her to marry me. She is divorced and 2 children ...
:/Sorry. Where have I said or wrote I am unsatisfied with responses. I am actually very happy because of the responses here. It's better than I could hope for. I'd say yours is the first one that though being tongue and cheek, it is not ... Read More
Getting married, but have doubts... by fredgo
Hi all, I am new to this site, so bear with me. To the point, I have finally met a woman in Viet Nam that I love truly. In fact, I just spent 3 months with her in Nam Dinh and at the end I asked her to marry me. She is divorced and 2 children ...
Thanks to everyone's advice here and privately also. I will confront her about this in the next few days and see the reaction. Will also stop the money flow too to see what happens as has been suggested. I am very grateful for the replies. I ... Read More
Getting married, but have doubts... by fredgo
Hi all, I am new to this site, so bear with me. To the point, I have finally met a woman in Viet Nam that I love truly. In fact, I just spent 3 months with her in Nam Dinh and at the end I asked her to marry me. She is divorced and 2 children ...
Can't. He's in the UK, and I don't have much info about him. going that far, I might as well quit. Read More
Getting married, but have doubts... by fredgo
Hi all, I am new to this site, so bear with me. To the point, I have finally met a woman in Viet Nam that I love truly. In fact, I just spent 3 months with her in Nam Dinh and at the end I asked her to marry me. She is divorced and 2 children ...
yeah, I'm getting it. Thanks. Read More
Getting married, but have doubts... by fredgo
Hi all, I am new to this site, so bear with me. To the point, I have finally met a woman in Viet Nam that I love truly. In fact, I just spent 3 months with her in Nam Dinh and at the end I asked her to marry me. She is divorced and 2 children ...
No problem! I figured I would get a lot of "Run" comments, but, I really am looking for the advice in my situation. Of course, I can run and would probably be a good thing to do. But, what if she is as I believe, a good woman that has ... Read More
Getting married, but have doubts... by fredgo
Hi all, I am new to this site, so bear with me. To the point, I have finally met a woman in Viet Nam that I love truly. In fact, I just spent 3 months with her in Nam Dinh and at the end I asked her to marry me. She is divorced and 2 children ...
Sorry for assuming you were thinking with your "second" brain, but you have to admit that her being so gorgeous is not just a coincidence ;-) Personally, I think that is she was really into you and willing to be devoted to you, you would ... Read More
Getting married, but have doubts... by fredgo
Hi all, I am new to this site, so bear with me. To the point, I have finally met a woman in Viet Nam that I love truly. In fact, I just spent 3 months with her in Nam Dinh and at the end I asked her to marry me. She is divorced and 2 children ...
Thanks! Can't say that your quote about later in a divorce scenario I could hear that. I do plan to have a prenuptial agreement. But here is the thing. I know I am ONLY interested in vietnamese women. I know that I only want to marry a ... Read More
Getting married, but have doubts... by fredgo
Hi all, I am new to this site, so bear with me. To the point, I have finally met a woman in Viet Nam that I love truly. In fact, I just spent 3 months with her in Nam Dinh and at the end I asked her to marry me. She is divorced and 2 children ...
That is a good post. Thanks! I think I will ease off the gas pedal now. I have viet friends here and in vietnam, and they say the same thing. Most closest have suggested that I go and live there some months with her first. And learn about each ... Read More
Getting married, but have doubts... by fredgo
Hi all, I am new to this site, so bear with me. To the point, I have finally met a woman in Viet Nam that I love truly. In fact, I just spent 3 months with her in Nam Dinh and at the end I asked her to marry me. She is divorced and 2 children ...
Thanks for your reply! She's 34 on Friday, so, likely, she is thinking along the lines you describe. Question for me is that okay? I think so. At my age, it's the loyalty and commitment that most vietnamese women provide that is more ... Read More
Getting married, but have doubts... by fredgo
Hi all, I am new to this site, so bear with me. To the point, I have finally met a woman in Viet Nam that I love truly. In fact, I just spent 3 months with her in Nam Dinh and at the end I asked her to marry me. She is divorced and 2 children ...
Then why post to me or this post? Jeeze. Read More
Getting married, but have doubts... by fredgo
Hi all, I am new to this site, so bear with me. To the point, I have finally met a woman in Viet Nam that I love truly. In fact, I just spent 3 months with her in Nam Dinh and at the end I asked her to marry me. She is divorced and 2 children ...
You're not being cruel. Just, you are right. I did reread and as I wrote the long thing, I have the same realization. I'm just confused because of the cultural issue. If it were just a western woman here, this would be an open and shut ... Read More
Getting married, but have doubts... by fredgo
Hi all, I am new to this site, so bear with me. To the point, I have finally met a woman in Viet Nam that I love truly. In fact, I just spent 3 months with her in Nam Dinh and at the end I asked her to marry me. She is divorced and 2 children ...
Thanks. You may be right about this by a lot. But, I am having trouble with the "What if..." What if she is true and just made mistakes? I've made them. Maybe not to her level, but, the thinking in Vietnam is not the same as here. ... Read More
Getting married, but have doubts... by fredgo
Hi all, I am new to this site, so bear with me. To the point, I have finally met a woman in Viet Nam that I love truly. In fact, I just spent 3 months with her in Nam Dinh and at the end I asked her to marry me. She is divorced and 2 children ...
Thanks DHuong. Of all the replies to my request for help, yours was the closest to helping me. I agree with all posts (except the one about thinking with my second head. I am 49, and falling for that is not as strong as it was when I was 22. ... Read More
Getting married, but have doubts... by fredgo
Hi all, I am new to this site, so bear with me. To the point, I have finally met a woman in Viet Nam that I love truly. In fact, I just spent 3 months with her in Nam Dinh and at the end I asked her to marry me. She is divorced and 2 children ...
Thanks charmavietnam. I appreciate your words. My wallet is pretty significant, but, I don't show all. Despite my weariness, guess I still fell. :( Read More
Getting married, but have doubts... by fredgo
Hi all, I am new to this site, so bear with me. To the point, I have finally met a woman in Viet Nam that I love truly. In fact, I just spent 3 months with her in Nam Dinh and at the end I asked her to marry me. She is divorced and 2 children ...
Yeah. Sorry for the long write up! But really need the advice how to cope. Really, any VN woman I meet could have bones in the closet. Same for men here. But have to admit after reading about others, some are great and some horrible. I just need to ... Read More
Getting married, but have doubts...
Hi all, I am new to this site, so bear with me. To the point, I have finally met a woman in Viet Nam that I love truly. In fact, I just spent 3 months with her in Nam Dinh and at the end I asked her to marry me. She is divorced and 2 children ... Read More