Hello, I know there are a bunch of questions regarding cohabitation but none of them truly answer all of the questions I have. I AM NOT ASKING HOW TO APPLY FOR THIS VISA, because I know it is a lengthy process, but I have done a lot of research on it. I am an American citizen hoping to apply for a visa in June/July of this year having met my boyfriend in Jan 2013. I know the requirement is having known each other for two years, but my boyfriend (who lives in Ypres, Belgium) says he knows at least two couples who have applied for the cohabitation visa and been approved not having proof of knowing each other for this amount of time. I have the following questions:
1. Has anyone had any experience applying for this visa and being accepted or denied?
2. If accepted, had you known each other for 2 years? If denied, what did you do next? Is it costly to hire an attorney? And most importantly, is it harmful to have a denied visa request on my record? Will this hinder my ability to be approved in the future?! This is what I am most worried about...
3. Does it help that my bf and I have a legitimate relationship and are not a foreign couple trying to get married for legal purposes?
4. Also does it make a difference which commune we register with? Is it more likely to be accepted if you apply in a small city like Ypres or even Ghent as opposed to a large city like Brussels where they probably get a lot more visa requests?
Thank you so much for any and all helpful information you can receive! I would love to hear about specific cases of your visa being approved/denied. Thanks