I haven't seen any threads on this, so thought I'd ask. Hubby and I have been discussing hiring one on and off for awhile but never actually did it. My husband asked his family once on how to go about it here in Vietnam, they said "You hire family!" (aka "hire me!" ) Hubby says seems legit and wanted to hire family, I say his family has a poor tract record of doing anything, even when being paid. We couldn't agree so dropped it. With a newborn in play, I definitely need the maid now so I can focus on baby and job. I'm in PMH and almost every family I see has a nanny/maid so I jut can't see the you should only hire family or you get scammed argument.
So your advice/opinions on hiring a maid:
Who should an expat look to hire? (family, family friend, young woman, old woman, etc)
What qualities to look for:
What to expect of a maid here: (I see many Vn wanting to be your maid/nanny/whatever, seems like they multitask)
How to treat them: (I ask because I've been told you treat them like family, which is fine, just trying to understand the culture better.)
Salary:
Sorry this is long, just hope with these answers others can also receive useful tips.