I am on holiday in Vietnam and I met a girl on tinder, we've met up a few times for food and drinks, she is beautiful, seems kind and very family oriented.
Then I read these forums and there seems to be a lot of comments about these seemingly innocent good girls turning out to have multiple boyfriends for money etc.
I have only been here a week I am still learning about culture and I can be naive so any advice to help me not become another story would be appreciated.
This girl seems like kind of woman I could marry, but I am in no rush, I am 29 but don't want to waste my time if I'm being taken for a ride.
She helps her mum everyday on the market, sells clothes online and works in a women's fashion shop when needed, the times we have been out there is little affection with touching my arm or face but holding hands is off the table and she always asks to go home before 11pm and doesn't drink or smoke.
Her English is ok and she says thing s wrong sometimes but we both laugh and I try to teach her the correct way to say words and she teaches me Vietnamese. From what I've read these are all signs of a good girl but I have trust issues from a previous relationship.
Before I really get feelings for this girl a few things caught my eye, her Facebook is very private, nothing from her life just selling things but her friends are also private so I can't see if there's like 100 dudes on there.
Last night as I was in a taxi going to meet her I saw a girl leaving a restaurant who looked like her, with the same bag, with a guy. Now maybe I'm super paranoid as I don't think a girl would be crazy enough to set up a meeting with me tell me to get a taxi to her place while in a restaurant?
She has told me about things with her family but has never asked for money, am I being too cautious? Are my own problems putting off something that could be good?