I met a beautiful Colombian girl online in 2019 and we were married 6 months later. I was 49 and she was 19. She had a infant son but that didn't matter. We made plans for her and her son to come to the United States and we would all be a happy family. She gave me all of her documents for the visa but kept making excuses as to why she wouldn't get her son's documents. Finally after 3 years I asked if she wanted to leave her son in Colombia with her mother and she said yes. I submitted her paperwork and had her visa 3 months later. Then it started over again. I think she was shocked that she got a visa because she refused to board several flights and her visa expired. She said she couldn't leave her son because her mother was in the hospital. I went through the process and renewed her visa but after she got it this time she said she wanted her son to come. I told her by the time he got an embassy appointment her visa will have expired again and she needed to come to the United States and get her green card while we wait for his embassy appointment. She keeps refusing so I told her forget it, I'm coming there. I can get a much nicer house there and have more money from my VA and social security retirement to provide for them. I also told her how dangerous and crazy the United States has become and I really like Colombia better. I've made arrangements with a moving company, bought plane tickets, got all the documents for my service dog and have been talking to a realtor in Cali. Now she tells me she refuses to meet with the realtor to choose a house for us, she won't sign my visa documents so I can stay in the country, and won't move because she's in school (which means she never intended on coming to the United States after getting her visa the second time). I'll admit I pay her rent and support her but I can afford it but it seems she's always demanding money. And when I go see her every few months or so she refuses to have sex with me. I feel like she really loves me because when we're together she is all over me and dotes on me constantly and we video chat daily. I just don't understand her behavior. I know she told me she likes it when I buy her expensive gifts because she lives in a very poor neighborhood and she likes making her friends jealous. Why would she marry me only to refuse to come to the United States and why would she get so upset about me coming there? She lives in a crappy 2 bedroom apartment in a bad neighborhood and I'm going to move into a 5 bed 5 bath house with a pool. Also, she keeps my number blocked and on do not disturb and refuses to unblock it no matter how much I threaten her. Any ideas?