I am wondering, what are the expectations of VN women, are they like western expectations of the 60's where the guy does all the chasing ? or is there a balance between the 2 ? I accept that there will be significant difference between city and outer village expectations also, so any in put on this is also welcome..I am an old fashioned guy, but it's a fact that many, like me; are confused by modern expectations I have a female friend in Phuong 2 but am confused by her indifference sometimes,from our chats on Skype, it appears she likes me but at other times there is no reply, is this a game ?or is she just protecting her self,