Greetings ! Kia Ora ! Goie Dag ! Sabona !~
Been in NZ 3 years on 14th July !
What a journey. Our scenario is different as we oldies are the trailblazers ! Much harder as we don't meet friends via our kids as one does if one arrives with school going kids. I advocate that that is the BEST time to arrive !
We live in W.Auckland as my work is in the West. Love the Waitakere Ranges where we live about 7 km past Titirangi on the way to Cornwallis and Huia.
We have had to learn to adapt here without all the scaffolding - i.e. we are the 'oldies' and came here first and have the heart break of kids here and in SA. Also we don't meet people through our kids as the younger generation do. And we're not with all the Saffers in Howick or on N. Shore for example. It has its pros, as we are not 'labelled' as the Saffers who all congregate are - (my colleagues at work call them Jaapies apparently.) We have tried to integrate with the people here and met people of all cultures and backgrounds which is great. But on the con side we do miss people who think the way we do and still hope to find more folk of our generation in the near vicinity. We're English speaking and support The All Blacks and Silver Ferns. One does need to attempt to adapt, else remain in a bit of a mini SA laager here,I think. Your feelings and responses ? Evi.