I am a young 60 year old who married an American eight and half years ago. After living in Michigan, Virginia, Utah and now back to Michigan I have still not settled. I fear getting ill and old here. I fell in love with someone not so well off and it seems evident that medical bills can leave you very poor here. I feel I have embraced a lot of the American culture but there is also a lot of the every day things I know have not and don't think I ever will, I was called 'ethnosentric the other day by a younger member of the family.....I was just pointing out differences rather than saying things were better back in England, I have never really made friends because most of the ladies I meet are so easily offered, that goes for the lady members in the family as well, my husband says it's not me but I'm certain we have a very different mind set and I just don't think like they do?????? I miss my home soooooo much I just don't know if I will ever be happy here. I would really appreciate any help as I am at my wits end.