Asalam o alaikum And Hi Everyone,
Its my first day here, and I was really impressed with all the response and the help everyone was giving one another ! MashaAllah ..
May U all be fine with the Blessing of Allah SWT.
I am Sarah from UK and fallen in love with a guy living in Riyadh originally from Pakistan.
My family, well more like my mother and sister are not agreeing to the proposal, and his famiy have agreed accept one of his brothers.
I have alot of questions. I was wondering what would it be like living in Saudi ? I have a really postive feeling as Alhamdulillah I know the islamic rules and understand the culture of Saudi! However, some things really get me worried, like the fact the government not helping. In UK the government help alot (well ofcourse they would, WE PAY TAX ) and in Saudi my husband to be inshaAllah doesnt earn very high. His earnings are about 3000 which he saves every month masha Allah. But once we are married, we will have alot to do, like grocery shopping, medical etc. He went to SAudi 2 years ago via a company in which he gets alot of benefits through the company. But will he still get these benefits after he has married me ?
I have told him to study, as he hasnt studied very much. And inshaAllah in a couple of months he is starting his degree via an open uni, studying Bsc in ITC. Do you think that this is good enough for him to get a better position after 4 years of achieving his degree?
At the moment he works as a Civil Daughtsman. He has his dipolomas in that, but someone told me that, that was not enough in which he is planning to further study ( jst for the sake of me)
I am taking this decision myself of marrying him... and dont know what will happen ... I am not sure if my parents will accept me if I marry him. But I surely love him alot and he does too...
I didnt expect myself in this situation, but however it has happened now... and May Allah forgive me and guide us al
Please could some of you shed some light and respond to my Questions.
Many Thanks in Advance.
Take Care,
May Allah SWT shower His Mercy And Blessing upon us all.
Ameen
Sum Ameen
Ya Rabil Alameen,
Ma Salam