Hello, My name is sam....Im still in high school and reside in missouri, somehow I fell in love with the german exchange student. She is leaving in june, We are trying to get a work permit for me through her fathers company, but its not looking so bright. We have decided that we cannot lose each other, and will marry..if the permit will not work out. I know the process to get married locally here and legally, and the german consulate in NY told me that german recognizes american marriages. I understand that spouses of german citizens with a valid residence in germany (her residence is valid) are able to bypass work permits and work freely and unrestricted. So basically what I need to know is, after were married, what do I need to do to get a "spousal" stamp on my passport, or permit. I have had trouble getting in touch with the consulate because of time conflicts...so can anyone help me out?