Hello,
This is my first post.
My question is, am I being used here?
I am a good looking man, not the best but okay lol, I live in London England and am turkish Cypriot with a good Turkish speaking accent better the most Cypriots.
I met a girl who works in a 5 star hotel in North Cyprus as a waitress.
She lives in Ankara and studies in North Cyprus. She is moving back to Ankara in 2 months as she graduates school from Cyprus.
I got her number the day I was leaving. We have been speaking for 2 weeks.
We spoke a few times on the phone for like 10 minutes max, she shuts the phone when her room mate comes in. It is a girl because I facetimed her and she showed me once. She just doesn't like talking in front of her.
She lives in a single room with this random roomate she doesn't like, it is because the hotel give them this room as an employee.
She feel ill this week and lost her job and her room apprently so i decided to send her money.
How do I know if I am being used here for money or not?
What signs should I be looking out for? Now I don't have money worries but I don't want to be used either. Do turkish girls do these kind of things? I know Thai girls do this.