Share your experiences so other kind hearted blokes do not become another statistic here. There's a running joke about foreigners here. No Filipino/a will share it with you as they do not want us to look down on their people. We must share our experiences - you know these:
I think the reason I have been successful here is I observed the relationship between Filipina women and their Filipino Men and realize they have separate "rules of engagement" for us farang -
The more I study the Filipino words = mas naiintindihan ko ang mga tao, ya!
Me: Native New Yorker, love the Philippine people and culture - The masamang tao here do not make my heart hard towards others. Life here is hard, this can drive people to do things they wish not to do. Therefore, I forgive those whom transgressed against me, but it is my duty to help my fellow man to avoid such calamity.
I am Dane