Jackson4 wrote:The issue may just be an imperfect communication. Given their very different cultures and generation, there may just be a gap in how one expresses their message. They need each other, I am guessing the 'girl' needed the long term financial security, the old man needed a companion and fire in his.....ummmm.... life.
What's stopping him from visiting the new house if it in the same barangay? What's going to happen if the 'girl' gets mad? Make up activity (s.3.x) is fun too.
Since he is putting out all the money, I think the old man need to assert some of his rights with caution.
He should get a lease contract on the land the house is on since he cannot own the land.
He should not be the only one bending over.
Yes communication is key in any relationship, sad situation for this guy. Perhaps he can't visit the property because of his age over 60 and she is enforcing that for his wellbeing or her own agenda, we are not there and don't know what is really transpiring.
Husband and wife cannot lease from each other as they are considered one entity under Filipino law, that's how I understand it but may be wrong.
Cheers, Steve.