I need help moving on from my Moroccan ex!!

Hi again.

I really have nothing constructive to add to what I had previously said.  I think you already know the answer; you've already told us; you need to move on and get over him - it's really that simple.  The hard bit is how you do it; stop stalking his social media accounts would be a good start.

What the guy is doing is pretty obvious (even to you) if you think about it; he's looking for his best passport to the UK, the one that's going to look nice on his arm while keeping him in a nice environment.  His family are never going to accept you as his wife and these relationships normally crash and burn after a few months in the UK, but he's now in your house.

Hope this helps.

Cynic
Expat Team

I know you are right, I think it's more I struggle with rejection and knowing hes talking to more girls than me actually being upset about losing him.

I need to work on myself and accept that it would never work, too many things have happened now for us to ever be happy, I'm still going on my holiday it's only for one week and hopefully by then I'll have forget if I ever can stop stalking his social media

I sound pathetic and once I'm over him i will regret this and putting up with him for so long

Thank you again for your reply

make new friend， which will helps.

I always thought holiday romances were exactly that and nothing more.

Anyway, as others have said, find someone more serious. If you like foreigner men then perhaps consider moving and living and working overseas. It's not just that you'd find interesting people but you'd also feel that you were on holiday every single day of your life.

It's not possible to move abroad just yet, I have my own business here and its successful so I'd never leave that for a man
I spoke too him last night and hes saying hes happy single now, we will speak when I go on holiday and we will see in future, when I questioned him on this he said he doesnt know what will happen in future we could get back together, I cant wait for that though, i have to start living my life, I'm struggling with keeping friends with him on social media though but cant delete him.

Why I'm seeing him as a better person now than when I was with him I'll never know

You'll get all kinds of advice here, actually it's a bit weird posting your situation here since it is so personal. But I think most of us know that you were played by a player. We guys sort of know this. And, anyway, since that guy is playing around with other women, why on earth would you want anything more to do with him unless you enjoy sharing him. Even if you were to get more serious or even get married to him then for certain he'd be playing around with other women. So count yourself lucky to have nothing more to do with him.

Hey
I met some one in online dating website and her. She is Morocco. I sent so much money took gifts as per of my relationship commitment. I applied for the spouse visa. Soon after she landed in England within one month she thrown me into legal complications of domestic nature so that she could secure her permanent stay as I'm a British National. It took me one year to come out of the legal complications. 😭

Its nice to know that you came out of the legal complications. 

I had a  similar issue with a Moroccan woman who after 12 months in the country made false allegations against me. 

It took 6 months for the police to investigate and eventually no charges against him.

There are so many cases like that and the Home office is aware of it and doing nothing about it.

Good luck

OP, let me ask you: How would it have played out, if you had sent him the 600 Euros?

I had a short affair with a girl i've fancied for many years. Afterwards, she asked me for a loan. 15,000 THB, reepayable in 10 installments @ 1,500. (I doubt, anyone will want to hear any more).

As an older guy, over 50, I can tell you, from the shoulder: Money will destroy, whatever good you may have.

Have you been with this man, or is it all some fantasy?

All that 'online' stuff, texting, liking each ther's photos & posts, is hogwash.

Am lad, you have met. But then, why you? I doubt, those young girls would even consider sending this Don Juan 600 Euros, not for longer than 5 seconds.

Send me 600 Euros and I'll file your tax return and be at least honest. (Am trying to make a point, not bleed you dry).

The guy blew it, when he tried to convert your feelings into cash.
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A friend (Rubinesque, widowed, over 50 and with 5 children) was hit on by a Moroccan business man. Good income, owns cars, a fruit shop. He proposed mariage (they only ever met on Skype).

He was very good looking. And - as the boss - could have flown to SE Asia for a weekend.
Or pay her to fly to Morocco for a week.

I detest men, who play cruel games. And he had a FAKE Facebook.

It wouldn't even poccur to me to post fake names / fake photos / to withhold my phone number or to try to get laddies to adopt me. Look for someone genuine, who lives nearby. And forget this experience.

Why don't you transfer your feelings to, say, Frank Medrano?

All this online stuff isn't real!!!

As a man, who knows love, I would have donated a kidney or bone marrow. But this online b.s. is a total waste of time (unless you meat real men where you live).

Keep it real.

Why don't you transfer your feelings to, say, Frank Medrano?

All this online stuff isn't real!!!

As a man, who knows love, I would have donated a kidney or bone marrow. But this online b.s. is a total waste of time (unless you meat real men where you live).

Keep it real.

Omg brother how tell your full story please.