Hi, guys.
I'm portuguese, 29, and I have been in a relationship with a gorgeous filipina woman (33) since May last year. She works as a financial advisor at a reputable ensurance company operating in the Philippines (won't divulge it here for privacy reasons) which was proved after I sent her flowers sometime. She didn't know and she thanked me after with pictures.
Of course, I have had multiple videochats with her. Very shy. Has a gorgeous 8 year old. She never asked me for any money and she showed me a lot of pictures from when she visited Tokyo.
So, I think I pretty much covered all the bases here. The thing is, since New Year's, I couldn't get in touch with her until I decided to contact some colleagues of her. You know, I was worried about all the typhoons happening recently in the country.
She eventually messaged me saying she was very disappointed with me reaching out to other people and stuff and was even mad about it. But after we talked a bit she told me she was with her mother in the hospital and didn't know when she'd be back in Manila.
The thing is, she knew I was coming to visit her. I've been here about a week and a half. And this far she hasn't even gotten my messages on WhatsApp.
Now, with all this information, what do you make of it?
I want to believe the whole situation is just complicated somehow and there's nothing to worry about. But I need an outside perspective right now.
I mean, if it ended up being some scam wouldn't it make sense to be just the opposite, to show herself asap? I've heard about the ones that don't show themselves but they do ask for money, which really isn't the case.
Any fresh outside perspectives would be appreciated.
P.S: I kind of feel bad about exposing the situation on a forum. I feel like I'm somehow betraying her. But I'm going crazy thinking about this.