I am comfortable now going on a first date and get asked "what's my job and how much I make"
Hmmm been with the same Vietnamese lady for 22 years, all she knows about my job is I fix computers, as for "How much I make" she could care less, as long as, as she says "we have enough, don't worry"............we have separate bank accounts, have life insurance policies on each other (really for the kids and they are adopted) and are benificiearies of each others accounts.................Marraige is a partnership and thats how we live.
Back to the post, I sincerley wish his friend best of luck, but a lot of us here have seen it before, this man was smitten by a woman half his age, I don't see this lasting more than a few years, soon her family will be pressuring her for Motorcycles for everyone, houses on the family farm (if one exists) it can turn out to be a nickle and dime me to death existence. I know, I have built three houses (not expensive mind you) for the family - wedding gifts and believe me, over 20 years I have been paid back in spades. You marry an Asian, you marry the family and if you know that coming in, you have a chance.