Hello I am a Canadian girl who recently converted to Islam and came to live with her Bahraini boyfriend (hopefully husband soon) in Bahrain.
Was just wondering what kind of marriage procedures might I have to undergo before a traditional Bahraini sunni islamic marriage.
I don't have any record of sexual diseases but what I am more worried about is the fact that his family might feel uncomfortable if the doctor tells them I am not a virgin. My boyfriend knows about my past life but I wouldn't feel comfortable if his family had to read reports of my virginity.
Are Islamic virginity check-ups optional or mandatory?