Where to begin

Really good question where to start and in which country ,any what,for all country this is exactly needed question to answer and to know the answer

I agree the issue the people that do know the answers charge great amounts of money and even then it might not be the right answer.. i have spent money on the green card lotteries ect that does not work i have tried agents and that became to expensive so now i would like to from people that made it what they did...

Never give up.to go to USA this is everyone's dream but how they are choosing in the embassy it's really interesting

That is true but if you want citizenship you really have few options unless the political situation in South-Africa gets worse then i might be stuck here U.K is an option but not where i want to be

So what would you do if you were in my situation?

Never give up.catch strongly  your dream .As the God said the first was thought then the word and after thought and word came dream the real.try all he way to make it real.if someone couldnot let u to go through the door go inside through the window.