Hi I met a woman on a dating site. I had no clue of the reputation that Dr or Latina women had until watching YouTube video and reading forum posts. What I have gathered is it is all about American dollar. A lot of people say don't send money. I have met people who never asked for money. But the one I am interested in does. The situation is tough because I do love her and her family. She says she loves me. I have a problem with liars and cheaters so my radar is always on. It seems like a major leap of faith I am taking and will learn a lot from this or I am wasting time and money. To my point I am interested in marrying her and bringing her back here. It would be devastating to have to wait years. Seems like the trick is to make them think you are coming back. But of course they are they have family here. But if you are getting married to live in another country why would they deny You? Do they think their people are scamming and just trying to escape. Well I wanted to get an immigration attorney in DR hoping that it will be a 1 try process. I cannot second guess if she is real or not. Sometimes the end justifies the means. I do not like long distance relationships at all. It's not the cheating I worry about its the lying. I told them I really don't care what you do. Get your money however. But if you are telling me you love me and it's not real or you plan on switching up we are going to have a problem. Because we could have just been friends. I would have helped. Don't fool me with love. So I am going to see this through. This person motivates me to get my life together so if she ends up being fugazi I would haved at least gotten my life together and be on super alert for the next one. I just feel as though I hit the jackpot. She is a local. From SD. I am doing everything right by her I know I am a good catch. So if it doesn't work out her loss. I was trying to love the person and save them at the same time. She wants to be saved want to come here. I have no problem with that. I just pray and hope that this is God's plan for us to be together. She said she would never leave me. I am newb so I am hoping that God is,blessing me with this new good person because my last marriage she ended up being a cheater and a liar from US but I did nothing wrong in the relationship. So I hope I am not jumping out of the frying pan and into the fire. So this is my general rant. I don't lie but I see through bullshit. I am a Taurus. It's hard to keep up a lie for months on end. I can only see this though or walk away. I will see it though.
My question is how to get visa first go around
Next question how do you know if they are telling you the truth.
I love my girl and she says she loves me. I know there is financial hardships there and I don't mind sending money. I just don't want my heart played with. Liars are the worse. You have to investigate liars as they will never tell you the truth. I'm not doubting her maybe this is just a,cultural thing. I hope we end up together.