Hey everyone, it's been a long time! I spent about 22K moving my family of 5 to the island in December 2016. We had an awful experience overall and one morning, something just told me to leave the island and I did.... then the hurricanes hit.
But before getting into my perspective of life in PR, I'll give some background information of what I experienced. When we moved to the island, our family consisted of 5. My wife and I were 32 and 34, and we had a 14 and 2 year old girls, and a 3 year old boy. We're African-American although my wife could pass easily for Puerto Rican as everyone thinks she's of Hispanic descent.
We experienced racism, or maybe colorism would be the better term. Poor treatment from middle-class to upper-class. Many people wanting to overcharge us for things and blatant disrespect, such as ignoring us when we speak or stand in line.... oh my gosh i can't count how many times people would literally slide in front of me in line! At Best Buy, the supermarket, wal-mart... Or even cashiers at Wal-Mart overcharging for fruits and veggies. I'd see them intentionally ring up something cheap for the elderly.... while that's stealing, I get it. But then you're going to overcharge me on apples? (By typing in a more expensive apple sku#) I guess that balances the books in their mind. That happened HALF the time we shopped.
The biggest issue we had on the island however, was our rental and trying to secure a different rental. It was impossible once we got on the island.... thankfully, otherwise we would've been there during the storms and the places we were looking were frankly devastated so we totally dodged a bullet. (My heart truly goes out to anyone on the island during these hard times! Part of the reason i didn't want to really update; I feel guilty that I left in time.)
So our rental was infested with mice, mold, leaks, and non-functioning appliances. The owner who has over a million dollars worth of vehicles and over 2-4 million in properties... just painted over the mold, never cleaned the inverters which caused my son to have severe respiratory problems and a full-body rash. He also promised to fix all the appliances before we moved in.... and didn't. And in the lease put that if we had any structural issues such as leaks, the lease was void; which again, he tried to say we owed him for the entire year once we said we were leaving.
He also stated in the lease that if legal issues arose we would settle it in US court, but he summoned me to PR court. Just, the most stressful time in my entire life!
My wife and I are used to living a certain way. We're both from wealthy places, not that we're rich or anything, but upper middle-class and the living conditions in every place we saw was just not up to standard, and these were places between 1200 -2K per month.
While the discrimination we experienced wasn't shared by our other African-American neighbors, we have to assume it could've just been our luck. Which was good luck in hindsight, though I lost over 50K in 5 short months on the whole ordeal.
Visiting is awesome, up to a month. But I could not live in PR... not at all. Maybe the experience totally salted my taste of the island, but once I got back to the states, just hearing Spanish made me cringe. My wife and I both blocked any memories of PR out of our minds. We can barely remember cities or even our old address there and it hasn't even been a year! For kicks and giggles I showed my toddlers pictures of the villa we lived in and asked if they wanted to go back and live there... my talkative daughter, had no words, but just looked at me with a sad face and my son who never speaks just shouted, "NO!" LOL.
For a minute I felt slighted because the sentiment in the forum before I moved was so positive of the situation. I felt as though things weren't told to me straight. At this point I think our situation was isolated, but here is a list of things to totally expect... and this is pre-Maria:
- PR makes simple tasks complicated. You need "sellos" for a lot of things and you usually can't buy them at the place you need them! (Talk about counter-intuitive)
- Things cost more, as for cars, I found more value in buying luxury cars than "regular" cars. i got two awesome deals while there. A Lexus LS430 with 67K on it for $7,500 and a Lexus LX470 SUV with 121K on it for $8,500 with two sets of wheels! Both needed the same thing, 1 02 sensor and that was it! Both parts total cost me $120. If you know anything about those cars, they'll both get 400K on them easy. I could sell them both here in the states for WAYYYYY more than I bought them. I could get 12K for the truck easy and a man flagged me down over the summer and offered to buy the LS430 for "name your price! That's the cleanest LS430 I've seen in years!"
- The housing isn't like the states. Expect mold, expect leaks... at least that's what I'm told! Expect lizards from time to time. They're harmless, but poop an awful lot.
- Rough roads, crazy drivers, beautiful holiday season (Something else heavily understated)!
I have to stop this now because my kids are looking for me. But I hope this helps anyone looking to move to the island. Personally, I'd wait a bit as I believe real estate will decline in value there. I also don't know that the island has completed its flooding yet. I predict within the next 2-3 years the island getting a tad smaller from floods.
I've said this 2 years ago, that I believe the US govt is trying to force natives off the island. Likely to make it their own paradise. The reaction to Maria really cemented my belief in that.