PeterCambo: very interesting post...a little harsh and cynical but based on your real experiences so helpful to read.
For myself, I think maybe the Western idea of "love" and all the "soul mate" crap i brought with me to Cambodia is the problem that prevents me from setting up a realistic and practical relationship based on simple trust rather than romantic BS.
Lucky for me, I found a Lady I can trust after 30 months of letting myself be scammed. Smart...practical....thinks "love" is BS....has had 2 Western boyfriends already so she knows what's up and is not going to let me play her....a massage girl who just grabbed me off the street one day in the Night Market....thank you Buddha!