I am in need of advice
I am 43 years old and a mother of 2 children. A year and a half ago I met my boyfriend...a native of Kenya but has lived in the US for the past 20 years and is a citizen of the US. He has no children. In the last 6 months he has lost both of his parents and his uncles have named him the head of his family and they are expecting him to take over. He is in the US military and has no plans yet to move back to Kenya. His family knows of me and my children but he has told me they are expecting a child from us...I am no longer able to have children and he has no desire at this time in his life to have a child of his own. He loves my children and they adore him. I am looking for advice and guidance on how to handle all these changes...he brought me to Kenya 4 months after we started dating to meet his mom...she was very ill...his parents and sisters have accepted me and I care for them very much. I have been told this is a big deal...his sisters told me he has never brought anyone home before...and he was married previously and no one from his family ever met the woman.