Expatriating to another country is never easy, and should never be undertaken lightly. Unfortunately too many people (the dreamers) tend to take it just about as seriously as moving to a new apartment across town. Really bad logic there!
There are soooooooo many considerations to take into account before one even begins to seriously plan the move. And trust me, it does take a great deal of PLANNING and hard work if you aren't going to have it end up as a costly flop.
Things like vast differences in language, culture, customs & traditions, economic and political stability, differences in criminal and civil law, tax implications, employment availability and socio-economic conditions, among others.
Just picking up and moving to another country, sight unseen is foolhardy at the very least. One should plan on going there for an extended visit (more than one month) just to get a feel for the place and make sure it's a fit for you. You simply cannot get a true picture of what it is like to LIVE IN a country on a short vacation, it is impossible.
Concentrate FIRST on finding a job there, before you even begin any other planning. Unless you're wealthy and can afford to support yourself for 6 months to 1 year without any source of income then scrap that idea entirely. Too many people only look at the employment situation in their own country, don't like what they see and impulsively decide to get out. They do not stop to consider the fact that the employment scene in the new country may be just the same or even worse.
If you find a job then start your other planning and really do your homework, or you are dooming yourself to failure from the get-go. Approximately one third of all expats find they can't adjust to their new surroundings and go back home within the first year. This ends up being an extremely costly and sometimes even embarrassing mistake all round.
It is also extremely important to consider just what benefits from your homeland you will be giving up by expatriating. You may lose health care coverage and have to pay for it out of pocket, or purchase costly private medical insurance. You may be losing access to other very important government services and benefits that you have a right to at home, but not abroad.
Also consider the human rights situation in the host country, as a woman this will be extremely important for you Rosita, since women traditionally lose many rights in various countries, especially in the Middle East.
Just remember the more you know about every aspect of your host country that you possibly can, the better your chances of successful adaptation.
PEOPLE DON'T PLAN TO FAIL - THEY JUST FAIL TO PLAN!!!
Cheers,
James Expat-blog Experts Team