Hello all,
I am trying to take the desicion of to marry or not to marry her and I would appreciate any advice.
I met her online then we talked and exchanged photos. Though my father was already living in Egypt and I was gonna visit him in a few months time anyways.
So when ı went to Egypt the first day she insisted we would go out first day despite I told her it would be rude to my family from the first day I meet a girl instead of having dinner with them and she wouldn't care and insisted on.
she would rest and get ready and meet me. So we met then she told me she wish a marriage not a friendship and if my goal was not marriage then she wish I don't waste her time.
later on she said I would need to give some guarantee such as a house or I would need to accept to stay in Cairo and must own a house of my own as I was a foreigner her family would not trust otherwise.
I wanted to visit her where she was working in a small shop/kiosk and she became a little nervous at the time then when ı visited her I bought a water and she acted as if I was just a customer and charged me the money for water. then said bye bye. (There was another boy working with him there so somehow I thought he could be her boyfriend or something as she did not introduce him to me) After this incident I cut my connection to her but she would call me and cry and ask me what she had done wrong.
Then we began talking over the internet after I turned back to Turkey and I made it clear that I wouldn't buy a house in Cairo anyhow at least not before we were married at least for a few years. She eventually told me that she likes me so she accepted somehow.
She doesn't believe in love before marriage and I also began to agree with her idea somehow.
She seems to dream of some free space of her own because of her family pressure about clothing. She wish to live in Turkey with me. She wish this marriage to be as soon as possible as she is 34 and ı am 36 and she thinks we are too late for marriage and may also become late for having children.
So she keeps pushing me but also she openly says it is not about love she likes me but can only love after marriage as she just doesn't believe in nice words for no reasons or bases. Then I keep telling her I'll visit next week, next month and etc. I told her that I was not a rich man at all in anyway and we could have a poor life and she says she accepts as long as I do not beat her and cheat her.
So ı ask advice from people who are married to egyptian girls and/or they know someone around them who got married to egyptian girls. Please tell me your opinions and good/bad sides of marrying an egyptian girl.
Thank you in advance