Hello,
I am not illegal. I stay here for the max allowed by Schengen passport law and then leave each time. I stay out beyond the amount required to stay out before I return each time. My BF is a Dutch native and we have been together for about 2 years. He comes to visit me and sometime we meet outside of both, in UK for instance when outside of allotted time to visit Schengen. In a nutshell, we live together in NL for about 5.5 months a year. The rest of my time is spent in USA and traveling to other non Schengen places to meet up with my BF. We are very much in love. I don't come here for advice about IND and the rules, I am quite aware of all of them and my BF has an appt with them soon to discuss further. I come here for expat interaction. I am from USA and looking at moving for good at some future point to NL. I have studied Dutch for over a year or so, but stink at it, I do need to by the next Rosetta Stone, but will admit to giving up for now. My biggest challenge I have met here is merchants that are Maestro/Master Card merchants that now refuse to take my American Master Cards since they don't have pins/chips. I have called my Card companies and they all say that any vendor is still required to take them, but guess what, they give a darn over here about that. That cause a huge problem with my ability to budget my cash flow versus my credit lines and they tend to be quite rude about it while doing so. Aside from an angry tweet and considering reporting them to MasterCard, what can I do? And yes, they carry they MasterCard logo in their windows and yet deny my MasterCard. Urrrrrrgh.