Tong Tran wrote:In Viet Nam, parent usually force girl to marry from 25 - 30. Over 30, it is not good for giving a birth and people around you will have rumour such as "Poor her!!! She could not find a man, that is the reason why".
Especially, the girl in The north, average marriage age is 25. Vietnamese has a concept that people just have a mature and stable life until they get a husband. Keeping an old girl in family without marriage is like keeping a bomb. Someday, it will explore and "bommm!!!" (It means that she will have sex and be pregnant)
So, If you want to date with any girl, please set expectation with them first. Because this is our culture. Girl will expect to marry you, it is very natural and usual in this society, we accept it.
Tong Tran
I think you should not apply this to all Vietnamese while that is just your old thoughts.
We, Vietnamese girls, with high education and pride, we don't care if we get older without being married until we find out the right man for the hole rest of our life.
What if your age reaches to your limit and you will try to get married with any one you can capture? The rest of your life likes living in hell and you might just wanna kill yourself...