Your last post doesn't contain a single counter argument or point of view.
The topics I responded are the ones where I recognized most of the BS being said. Advice I give is valid and realistic,comes from years of experience being in SE Asia, I just don't sugarcoat it. When I commented a photo of a member (who is basically looking for an advice on how to bed a much younger girl in Vietnam and not get into a trouble with authorities) it was in connection with a post of another member who listed 4 reasons of why someone might not be allowed into hotel with a girl due to the fears of pay for play.That james seemed surprised why she can't go to hotel with him and those are the reasons, I didn't even list them first. I have friends both older and younger and a younger mixed couples have much less problems staying at hotels or resorts with their gfs than when a guy is much older. You can't fool Vietnamese (you can bribe some of them though),they know what the game is.