leebeme wrote:I do not disagree with you at all and i truly love those sayings, but i have always been a fool that must fail for himself first! I am not going to do the option i gave. i am having my wife buy it! This is also the first time i got married and i may be wrong to trust her, but I love her and again I have to learn the hard way!
One other quotI i like, "you only fail when you give up"
leebeme
I am an expatriate.
I am American, and I am now living in the Philippines. I am currently in lapu-lapu.
About me
First off, I never want to leave but i am in March. I will be back and will be gitting perminent residency visa so i never have to leave again. I never know what to put about me so ask and i will update!
My birthday is on 24 December, I was born in 1982
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leebeme
Member
From: lapu-lapu
Registered: 2013-11-27
Posts: 22
Re: The American Dream
American Dream?
serve for america in the military, full 4 years honerable service, 70% disabled, and get a pention for the rest of my life!!!!! For reality, dont get paid enough to survive on my own, live as a berden on my family, never find love because of my situation!!
Amarican Dream is what forgeners have when they want to live here!
The truth is i have found more freedom and peace in another country! My Amarican Dream is to never go back to Amarica!
Sorry for the downer
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Mr. Leebeme,---- Let me state "we" are talking about housing and how foolish it can be to buy one for someone else. Wife, loved one, etcetera, "they" ain't you.... They are someone else.
Dear brother, I too am a veteran, the "All Americans", double (AA) patch-stamp, 82nd Airborne, 319th Division; then on to Special Forces; I know this is cyberspace and (all) can be, what they want to be, within certain limits, but it's true... my military service, my DD214 form is in agreement with me on this.
You do strike me as just a wee bit naive, OK, let's call it angrily naive. But still naive.
Love, money, Filipina's, and houses; are an intoxicating mix! The volatility index, is well above that of c4 plastic explosives. Please note the houses comes in last, but in [this case] it's definitely not least. Love and money, is responsible for a whole lot of homicide in the world....are there any out there reading this, that disagrees?
It seems, at least from your writing that being a fool ain't all that bad... As long as "the fool" had, has, good intentions. I'll kindly tell you that this does not make sense, not even pretty good sense.... It gets worse, to wear I'm a fool on one's sleeve as a fool's badge of honor, well, it is simply unbecoming isn't it. When the fool takes the title of "a fool's fool", yes one does have to (think) about what's being said. What's the meaning? "A fool's fool?"
I've found administrator's here on this site deplore this, (thinking), so you better read this quick, before they hit the delete button....
Maybe the "fool's fool" statement is more easily understood, if using a different frame of reference. For instance, the statement "a man's man", is easy to understand, and then apply. A man's man, would be like a real man, John Wayne, Steve McQueen, Arnold... and the like. So you can now easily enough see, that a fool's fool, is a (real fool), the kind that so many in the world are only able to dream about, because fools of this order of magnitude, are not easily found. To clarify!
Order of Magnitude: Orders of magnitude are generally used to make very approximate comparisons. If two numbers differ by one order of magnitude, one is about ten times larger than the other. If they differ by two orders of magnitude, they differ by a factor of about 100.
So just to keep things simple, a 'fool's fool', would be a fool ten times greater than the ordinary everyday Johnny come lately run of the mill fool.
There are those who read some of these post I've posted, and dismiss what I say as maybe being trivial or "OFF TOPIC" but they are not, there is nothing trivial written here. As money is the sustenance of life... I didn't make it this way, you did not make it this way, but it (is) this way. I would encourage you greatly, massively, by 'order of magnitude 3, which is one-thousand times greater than 'order of magnitude' 1, to embrace this idea; that money is the sustenance of life... And act appropriately.
As to the kind and gentle bloggers above who have given warning, but acquiesced; to the toxicity of love's elixirs. I will kindly tip my hat to them, given, that we are all aware the road to hell is paved with good intentions.
About "love" and great quotes.
"Love will find a way", whoops, my mistake, that's "life will find a way" Jurassic Park. What else?
"Love is blind",
"Love is a many splendored thing",
The Power of Love: "Whenever you reach for me, I'll do all that I can", Celine Dion, maybe the most realistic line ever written about love...
**Love is a hormonal secretion** Spoken by Jack Nicholson, in the movie Prizzi's Honor.
The quintessence of love --- a hormonal secretion. Hum...yep, I think this it, Nicholson has found it. That's both, above the waist, and below, by the way. Nicholson, did not use the word 'quintessence' in the movie, it's my addition, so I better describe it. That way I'll understand what I'm saying and know what I'm talking about...
Quintessence: The pure, highly concentrated essence of a thing.
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OK, once again... I think a point has been made.
And it's time to "nutshell" this, as to adhere to the virtues of "Minimalism", which is a (theory)... and I do hold it in very high regard, please; you should read it, it's very useful. But like everything it does have a place, and fools, love, and money, and yes, even houses, is not a good place to go lacking....
But for good old times' sake.... I'll acquiesces as my kind bloggers have above, however still staying on the theme of fools, love, Filipina's and HOUSING, administrators.
Saying only this!
A fool and his money soon go separate ways.
Happy trails, happy travels,
Sincerely,
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