In a nutshell, My weight is my problem? Please, Help me !?

Stop trolling, you are not believable.

From my own experience (having lost 30kg since moving to Helsinki) you need to up your exercise and cut down on the bad things you're eating. Write everything that you eat in a little journal. Overweight people (myself included) classically underestimate how much they eat and how many calories they take in. I think if you wrote it down you would have a better idea of where you need to trim things.
In my own humble opinion, sugar is a terrible ingredient - I love it myself - and for weight loss it's your enemy. I try to look at food only as fuel for my body, and sugar does absolutely nothing for you besides pack on the pounds. No vitamins, no minerals, nothing to help your body function at all. Besides just table sugar, it also comes in the form of jams, jellies, your soda, and the large amound of tea you're drinking. While it doesn't seem like a lot, but think: 1 glass of Pepsi (108 calories) + the 10.5 tsp of sugar you put in your tea (157 calories). That's almost a meal that you're just drinking. I didn't even try to add how much sugar you get from the rest of your meals (as I have no idea how much you use).
The equation is not hard. Eat less and exercise more. Take in less that you use and you'll lose weight. You can YouTube exercises to do at home so that you don't have to leave so much. Cardio and strength training have worked incredibly well for me.
Good luck dude!

Oh, man, what the heck are you eating!!! Rice, Coke, sugars, chicken fajitas (white flower) etc. No wonder you are putting on weight! In my opinion the problem is WHAT you eat, not HOW MUCH you eat. There's no way of keeping hunger at bay with your diet. My husband lost 16 kilos in 4 months by following the Atkins' diet, try and find out about that and stick to your exercising, that you should definitely not cut, but if possible try and find someone to exercise with you, it's much more fun that way. Unfortunately there ar some people who seem to put on weight only by looking at food (!!), which means that you have to be extra patient and work hard to reach your target. Food journal is a good idea, as people usually really can't remember what they've eaten, we tend to cheat ourselves. And I think that everybody who has a family and loving people around them have a responsibility towards others, especially their children, so get your act together, ask for their support and if they love you they'll be ready to stand by you. If your goal is to lose approx. 20 kilos (or more) that may be possible in half a year's time. My motto is: everything is possible, make it your motto, too! And let us know how you are doing... Have a good summer.