Possible move to PR with a young child

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I have been reading a lot of the previous posts and have learned quite a bit. But I hope to get more info as well...

Thanks!!

Hello LACruz and welcome to Expat.com!

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Harmonie.

Thanks Harmonie!!!

OK, I'll give it a go. I hesitate to answer too much because I catch flak sometimes for telling people that it's not always as "wonderful and peachy keen" here on the island as they think it is. It's true that a majority of people thinking about coming here are not that financially well of and some one should apprise them of certain realities of life in Puerto rico. Some things you just shouldn't sugar coat. However, with what you explain about your family and situation, you should be able to deal better with some things the rest of us can't. Like paying very high elec. bills and food costs.

Job- Sounds like that is pretty well taken care of for your husband. As for you, speaking fluent Spanish is always a plus. From what I've seen here, having experience in banking and speaking the language may not be enough to land you a job. Work is very difficult to find at best and if you aren't related to someone or have solid connections where you are applying you might find that little or nothing will be available. Nepotism is rampant here. Somebody's 4th cousin will almost always get the job before you even if they aren't qualified.

Cars and furniture- Cars, somebody else should expand on that one. I suggest calling La Rosa del Monte movers. They are essentially the people to go to for moves back and forth to PR and they are in your area. They will get your stuff there quicker and with less trouble than anyone else. Your stuff won't sit at customs because their stuff gets sent right on through and delivered right to your door. It only took two weeks to get our stuff from VA to PR. Just watch them closely and get everything in writing. Don't make any verbal agreements with them. 

House rental-  look up www.clasificadosonline to find a rental in the area and price range you are looking for. I'd suggest maybe lowering your monthly price a bit lower than $2,000. First off, you can get a lot more house here with that kind of money than where you are at right now. The other reason is that your power bill is going to be very high especially if you want to use your AC more than just once in awhile.

Groceries- Ah yes food. Food is wonderful here in Puerto Rico. There are a great many chefs and good restaurants on this island. But just because we have a year round growing season, don't expect to find much in the way of great veggies and greens. What you do find in the supermarkets is usually very high priced, of dubious quality and very limited selection. There are places you can get better veggies than others. There are a number of decent farmers markets in the metropolitan areas. Just resign yourself that if you live here, your eating habits, likes and dislikes will definitely have to be adjusted.

Schools- Private school is probably the best way for you to go. I won't personally say anything disparaging about the public schools here but everyone that I've talked to that is from here always recommends going to private school whenever possible. It should be a wonderful opportunity for your son. At age 3 he can easily learn both languages at the same time. I can't recommend a particular private school but you should be able to find one that suits you if you are living in or around a metro area. We have a 9 year old daughter and couldn't find a suitable school in our area so my wife is home schooling her.

I'll say to you what I tell everyone else. Come here. Check the place out. As often as you can. Check out the stores. See what the prices are like. If you like a certain area try to find out from someone who lives there what there utility bills are like. Most of all, just be prepared to make some physical, emotional and mental adjustments. There really is a lot to enjoy here. My biggest concern is with people who want to come here on a very limited budget and have a tough time getting by because things cost so much more than they realized. I have to give you one last word of caution. If you are an animal lover you might have a difficult time with how poorly they treat animals here in general.

All this is just from my limited experience of 8 years trying to get here and 5 months of actual living here. If you would like to talk more, send me an email and I'll send you my phone number. I wish you and your family well and hope everything works out for the best.

Gregg Kurtz

I second GreggK's thorough response.

I would add to check out Commonwealth Parkville School. It is English speaking, has an excellent reputation, seemed very responsive when I dealt with it, and the elementary school (the "Parkville" half of Commonwealth Parkville) is located in Guaynabo, which you probably know is much closer to Caguas than St. John's. Also, the school's tuition is approximately $11,000 per year, while St. John's is approximately $17,000. (Picking up at St. John's is also a bit of a traffic nightmare for all of Condado.)

Great info thanks!! Gregg, I have TONS of research so far and I can see that a job might be hard. Maybe someone in my husband's family can help me find one.

Did I forget to mention that we go to PR about once a year. But visiting and having a great time and eating out all the time is def different then living there which is why I ask questions. I can ask my husband's family but they don't have all the answers. Like about food I am looking for and moving expenses. I found a neighborhood on Caguas that I LOVE!!! the house I like is $1700 and has central AC. How much would the power be I wonder?? we pay about $280 - $300 here and the house I found is also the same size as mine which is GREAT!! I know our eating habits will change a bit, We are Spanish so we eat a lot of Spanish / Caribbean cooking but like I said we are borderline vegetarians and I really don't want to be eating starch and carbs all day. When I was there in June I hated that places didn't serve nice green salads. Or that I could get friggin BROCCOLLI as a side. LOL! I wonder if I can grow a veggie garden??? mmm! I may do that.

Anyway!! Thanks everyone! Any other info will be greatly appreciated. I will keep you all updated to any new developments on our possible move.

Oh and Gregg, your "truthful" commentary doesn't bother me at all. I know EXACTLY what we are getting ourselves into. But it is an awesome opportunity for my hubby so we are willing to make the move. and in all honesty I LOVE PR and I adore his family and would love to be closed to them. I know the difference a good paying job can make. I know how hard life can be there as well. But I am prepared to take on the challenges. But I appreciate all your input regardless negative or positive.