Is having an affair as an expat always inevitable?

ujjwal0908 wrote:

The best thing is to be clear instead of playing in disguise

I agree! If both want an open relationship that's good. Not everybody like to have 1 partner for life. But it is important, that both of them really want this and it is not pushed on the other partner, because it will be like mentally abuse. If a guy says he's ok with his feminist GF/Wife is having sex with other guys, because he's too weak to say no, it is a mentally violent relationship, where he's ALLOWING to be treated like crap(castrated), because he doesn't feel any self worth and he stays in the relationship to please his partner. The better she treats him, the more self worth he feels. Same as in a physical  violent relationship. That's why a woman stays with a violent man.

We're all trying to figure out how to live life and of course we all make mistakes. Forget the guilt trip and learn from the mistakes. Give an apology if needed and constantly work on improving yourself. From my experience, that's a great mindset.

Sex and Love are 2 diffrent things. Even as an Expat or not an Expat, having sex out of marriage is nothing to do about the love of spouse.
Love always goes with your souls, sprit, heart,sacrifice and trust.
Sex has nothing to do with all the above, sex is just like food, when you are hungry you eat and you want to eat diffrent type of food every day, so do with sex.
In sex, no heart or love involve , it is just body satisfaction.
By nature man body react diffrently than woman body, so man want more sex than woman.

Time is Flying wrote:

Sex and Love are 2 diffrent things. Even as an Expat or not an Expat, having sex out of marriage is nothing to do about the love of spouse.
Love always goes with your souls, sprit, heart,sacrifice and trust.
Sex has nothing to do with all the above, sex is just like food, when you are hungry you eat and you want to eat diffrent type of food every day, so do with sex.
In sex, no heart or love involve , it is just body satisfaction.
By nature man body react diffrently than woman body, so man want more sex than woman.

It is important the wife/girlfriend knows and is really ok with an open relationship or she will get very hurt. If she has an open heart, it will feel very hurtful to share you with anybody else.

Sex and Love are 2 diffrent things. Even as an Expat or not an Expat, having sex out of marriage is nothing to do about the love of spouse.
Love always goes with your souls, sprit, heart,sacrifice and trust.
Sex has nothing to do with all the above, sex is just like food, when you are hungry you eat and you want to eat diffrent type of food every day, so do with sex.
In sex, no heart or love involve , it is just body satisfaction.
By nature man body react diffrently than woman body, so man want more sex than woman.

Time is Flying wrote:

Sex and Love are 2 diffrent things. Even as an Expat or not an Expat, having sex out of marriage is nothing to do about the love of spouse.
Love always goes with your souls, sprit, heart,sacrifice and trust.
Sex has nothing to do with all the above, sex is just like food, when you are hungry you eat and you want to eat diffrent type of food every day, so do with sex.
In sex, no heart or love involve , it is just body satisfaction.
By nature man body react diffrently than woman body, so man want more sex than woman.

You feel that. If she doesn't, there's a huge problem. For her sex and love is not 2 different things. For her sex may be something very intimate thing, she only shares with someone she really loves.

If she finds out you enjoy sex with lots of partners, she will feel very hurt. It would feel like she has been back stabbed emotionally. Trusting someone that failed her completely. That's why, it is very important to either have a partner that feels exactly like yourself or figure out, if you want to only have sex with her and nobody else. If you have sex with others, without she knows about it and she isn't ok with it. It would be terrible, if she finds out.

What an unexpected post!

Time is Flying wrote:

Sex and Love are 2 diffrent things. Even as an Expat or not an Expat, having sex out of marriage is nothing to do about the love of spouse.
Love always goes with your souls, sprit, heart,sacrifice and trust.
Sex has nothing to do with all the above, sex is just like food, when you are hungry you eat and you want to eat diffrent type of food every day, so do with sex.
In sex, no heart or love involve , it is just body satisfaction.
By nature man body react diffrently than woman body, so man want more sex than woman.

Sex and love are so correlated but Men and women are mentally different regarding it. Love and sex are two faces for one coin to the girl. To have sex with a girl, man has to be in her heart through love. For man, it's the opposite, to be in his heart through love, she has to fill his sexual desire. It's integrated relationship.

An affair can happen anywhere really. Although it's got to be tougher in Kuwait for a man. Let's face it I think men out number women 10 to 1.

Is a friend with benefits an affair? Or just a really really good friend hahaha

Time is Flying wrote:

By nature man body react diffrently than woman body, so man want more sex than woman.

Don't think that's true. Women can want them just as much as men, there are surveys that have proven this. However, in many cultures, women are discouraged to express themselves sexually lest they be considered lesser/damaged goods.