Well, I'm about to embark on trip number 6 to Vietnam since February of this year to see a girl (girlfriend)! It's been a rocky 9 months being in love with a woman from a different culture, who lives on the other side of the planet and barely speaks English (I can say, hello, thank you, and I love you in Vietnamese). I'm writing because I'm beginning to struggle with some trust issues. So many people say don't trust anyone in Southeast Asia. I'm starting to feel a little insecure. When I first met her, my girlfriend seemed so beautiful and innocent, but she is a lot more too, and I see that now. She's beautiful and very intelligent, and has always seemed very transparent, but Is there something that I'm missing?? Everyone tells me to be careful. I've met her family and they seem very nice. Did I mention that I met her in a bar? Maybe that should be a big red flag? It doesn't seem a problem meeting a girl in a bar in the US, but how about Vietnam? Am I foolish, naive, or just paranoid?