Hello! My spouse is a UK citizen and I'm American. We want to move to NL, but his jobs wants him in England a while longer than we'd hoped.
If we go to the Netherlands and register with him as an EU citizen bringing his spouse in, can he start going back and forth between the countries while leaving me in the Netherlands? Would there be some sort of requirement for him to spend a certain amount of days there, or can he do what he likes as long as he follows the tax rules?
For instance, can he register in NL, have me live there, and then spend only a couple weekends a month there?
Thank you so much. I know this situation isn't ideal, but we're trying to figure out our options.