My wife (Thai) and I are considering moving back to Thailand as my work circumstances are likely to change to a 4 week on 4 week off roster which will favor us moving back. We were looking at moving to the Rayong area vs. where we were previously in Khon Kaen near family there.
My question is based on the response that my mother in law gave my wife being that Thailand is not safe anymore. It has only been 4 years since we last lived there although our living situation would be somewhat different as I would be away from home for 4 weeks leaving my wife and two young children on their own. Her response was quite surprising and she narrowed it down to her fear that with my not being there if we were to buy a comfortable house it would leave us open to being robbed, home invaded or our children being kidnapped.
My personal feeling is that this is a bit of overkill although family being the most important thing I was hoping for some feedback from a wider group.
My questions are these.
Do you feel safe living in Thailand and would you also feel safe leaving a wife with two young children home without being there for extended periods?
What areas would you recommend to live with good international schools (avoiding Bangkok if possible) that are considered safe?
Thank you in advance for your responses.